I am honest, but I also try go be tactful, and if that means just keeping my mouth shut, so be it.

I value my friends and friendships, and enjoy meeting people and making new friends.

I've learned that I don't *need* the last word, but I sometimes enjoy seeing how far others will go to get it. I'm just a little twisted that way I guess.

I am pretty happily married (probably why I'm twisted), so I do "believe" in marriage. But more importantly I believe in working at making marriage work, since the real work begins AFTER you say "I do."

I'm here because I am fascinated by the idea of people with genuine relationship questions soliciting advice from nigh-total strangers(!).

Me and the Mrs enjoy reading a lot of this together. In fact, much of what I write has her input because I believe I'm better with her than without.

And I must confess, I'm also here to see if I can help...

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