thottienc

Member Since: Jan 2006

Gender: Female

Age Range: 29-35

City: Charlotte

Commitment: Who Cares?

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ABOUT ME

thottienc

Work Type:
Who Cares?

Ethnicity / Faith:
Who Cares?

Education:
Technical

Sexual Preference:
Heterosexual

MY SHOWCASE

My Questions:
Date Title
Fri 11/20/09 Well That's Odd, Michael...
Mon 11/09/09 Green Eyes & Brunette Please
Fri 11/06/09 Holy Hell Dumbarse! (Warning Rant ensues)
Fri 11/06/09 Random Question about Roadkill...
Wed 11/04/09 Two Important Quotes of the Day
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My Responses:
Date To Title Rating
Fri 11/20/09 doxie777 RE: Sanity or no sanity?
Fri 11/20/09 istillhatescreennames RE: This is why CNN has lower ratings than reruns of Headline News. 2
Fri 11/20/09 jillopo RE: I'm scared about starting my new job today... 3
Fri 11/20/09 Anonymous RE: I started dating the women I now call my wife in June of 2003 and I married her june 2008
Fri 11/20/09 sluggo RE: What's the trick to being old (44) and happily single?
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My Best Responses:
Date To Title Rating
Thu 09/07/06 steve67 RE: I was born here.. why should I leave? 3
Fri 09/08/06 bluegenel RE: God vs Evolution.... 3
Fri 09/08/06 jakerbaker RE: From Anne Coulter, Couldn't be more right. 2
Wed 09/13/06 elysecia RE: Give Some or Get Some 3
Wed 09/13/06 setzer RE: Theory 3
Wed 09/13/06 steve67 RE: What you see, is what you get.. 3
Fri 09/15/06 Anonymous RE: Is this shallow? 3
Sat 09/16/06 kcsmom RE: Pt 2. 3
Sun 09/17/06 Anonymous RE: healthy masculinity 3
Sun 09/17/06 butternutbisque RE: Oprah... 3
Sun 09/17/06 brandon35 RE: hmmm 3
Tue 09/26/06 Anonymous RE: Polygamy and State Restrictions on Marriage 2
Thu 10/12/06 leogirly7 RE: ut oh 2
Sat 10/14/06 sdcowgirl RE: Settling? 3
Wed 10/18/06 bytor RE: Relationships: Point "A" to Point "B"...... 3
Wed 10/18/06 Anonymous RE: segragation works both ways 3
Thu 10/19/06 mariot444 RE: 'Til I Reach Higher Ground 2
Wed 11/01/06 sinamen RE: Long term, but you broke up once 3
Wed 11/01/06 sweetgirl23 RE: Just few mins ago..:) 3
Wed 11/01/06 sakura1 RE: Yeah, yeah, hear me roar. 2
Sat 11/18/06 skaskiknee RE: Bein a player 3
Sun 11/19/06 Anonymous RE: Inter-racial dating question 3
Sun 11/19/06 Anonymous RE: WTF? 3
Wed 11/22/06 Anonymous RE: Upsetting! 1
Wed 11/22/06 mrjello RE: racial bull shit 2
Wed 11/22/06 mrjello RE: racial bull shit 3
Sat 11/25/06 Anonymous RE: untitled 3
Mon 11/27/06 mafiamans1girl RE: What the? 2
Fri 12/08/06 mssmartieblondie RE: My Cantankerous Young Son 2
Sat 12/09/06 maggot RE: Think about that 3
Sat 12/09/06 playaarrow RE: Players= Artists! 3
Sat 12/23/06 widgetjojo11 RE: when stereotypes prove true. 3
Wed 12/27/06 Anonymous RE: Rights... 1
Wed 12/27/06 Anonymous RE: Her ex ruined her; or did he? 2
Thu 01/18/07 brutisrazutis RE: untitled 1
Thu 01/18/07 brutisrazutis RE: untitled 2
Sun 01/21/07 rooster1eye RE: Someone get the shovel. We've got some B.S. 3
Sun 01/21/07 uniquelyme2 RE: The Kindness of Strangers 3
Sun 01/21/07 Anonymous RE: being bullied 3
Fri 02/09/07 curvysmartgirl RE: mom likes to party 3
Mon 02/12/07 niolk RE: untitled 3
Tue 02/27/07 kdtxchic30 RE: And there is even more research! 2
Mon 03/05/07 Anonymous RE: Comfort zone 2
Wed 03/07/07 fulloshit RE: Science is the answer 2
Fri 03/16/07 duracell78 RE: Trying to start something 3
Fri 03/16/07 eyesofice RE: DUUHHH.... 2
Mon 03/26/07 Anonymous RE: Letting go. 3
Tue 03/27/07 txsophisticate RE: I'm too sexy for 'one' s/o........................ 3
Tue 03/27/07 Anonymous RE: Reverse Discrimination??? 3
Sat 03/31/07 Anonymous RE: Daughter's Trust 3
Sat 03/31/07 eemo RE: i hope thottie thinks im hot...lol! 3
Sat 03/31/07 sakura1 RE: Supportive vs. Enabler 3
Sat 03/31/07 silkenfire RE: POOF! Daddy's HOME... 3
Sat 03/31/07 chchia RE: feel quilty or forgiven? 3
Mon 04/02/07 atin0031 RE: Being Fat and Dating? 2
Tue 04/03/07 play4life RE: wits end 3
Tue 04/03/07 silkenfire RE: Who's dragging who where? 3
Wed 04/04/07 faythweb RE: just love your children 3
Wed 04/04/07 leogirly7 RE: YEAH YEAH 3
Thu 04/05/07 silkenfire RE: Unforgettable Surprises... 3
Sat 04/07/07 Anonymous RE: Lying in marriage... 2
Fri 04/13/07 latino RE: Malo malo 3
Sun 04/15/07 Anonymous RE: lose the weight, ie, your wife 3
Tue 04/17/07 sakura1 RE: Esteem/Ego 3
Thu 04/19/07 marilou26 RE: Arrogance? Why? 3
Thu 04/19/07 butternutbisque RE: kids need to be kids 3
Thu 04/19/07 Anonymous RE: pro-choice BS 3
Thu 04/19/07 jerry1970 RE: please explain 3
Fri 04/20/07 Anonymous RE: How to heal 3
Fri 04/20/07 sakura1 RE: Know thyself 3
Sat 04/21/07 Anonymous RE: Rital-in or Rital-out 3
Sat 04/21/07 fshngrl RE: lifelong hunt? 3
Fri 05/11/07 anonymouse32 RE: for women who think "living together = marriage" 2
Fri 05/11/07 sailormoon RE: So others won t be hurt 3
Tue 05/15/07 vabyss RE: You let me down. 3
Mon 05/21/07 rokitman RE: Gastric Bypass and Health Insurance 3
Fri 05/25/07 silkenfire RE: Poor Man's Recreation... 3
Thu 05/31/07 sakura1 RE: Listen up, chicks! 3
Thu 05/31/07 trinitygirl RE: support this 3
Fri 06/01/07 Anonymous RE: Black colleges are for blacks 3
Tue 06/05/07 eeth RE: untitled 3
Wed 06/06/07 sakura1 RE: "Deep Thoughts" 3
Wed 06/20/07 goodlucky1 RE: Parent 2
Thu 08/09/07 Anonymous RE: Learned Behavior 1
Fri 08/10/07 djslimjim RE: social Darwinism? 2
Sun 08/12/07 blacknina RE: untitled 2
Thu 08/23/07 funnyteacher21 RE: traditional gender role 3
Thu 08/23/07 azuwish RE: different shouldn't equal freak! 3
Fri 08/24/07 daydreamer1 RE: A moment inside the female mind.... 2
Wed 09/05/07 sg311 RE: What DO we really know?? 3
Wed 09/05/07 sg311 RE: Are models role models?? 3
Mon 09/10/07 llafsroh RE: Bunnies Suffer For Lasik Plus Profits 2
Wed 09/12/07 corsair77 RE: Raising kids and religion 3
Wed 09/12/07 steve67 RE: Catering to the weakest link.. 3
Thu 09/13/07 Anonymous RE: untitled 3
Fri 09/14/07 sakura1 RE: Your life's path 3
Fri 09/14/07 goddard RE: untitled 2
Tue 10/02/07 daydreamer1 RE: Hey baby, she didn't mean nothin' to me baby...... 2
Wed 10/03/07 patresi RE: What's the Christian take on Iraqi deaths? 2
Wed 10/03/07 buffalosoldier1 RE: We the Sheeple... 3
Thu 10/11/07 mcnish42 RE: untitled 2
Thu 10/11/07 zonke RE: untitled 2
Sun 10/14/07 Anonymous RE: untitled 2
Sun 10/14/07 Anonymous RE: untitled 1
Wed 10/17/07 manny1012 RE: Relationships 3
Thu 11/01/07 atticus RE: Cosby Moment 3
Fri 11/09/07 chavis RE: homelessness in general is a problem 2
Wed 11/14/07 pah1 RE: untitled 3
Thu 11/15/07 westie388 RE: ting-a-ling-bullshit 3
Mon 11/19/07 sakura1 RE: The Education Committee 2
Wed 12/05/07 xxjadexx RE: Mathew 6 vs 5 and 6 1
Tue 12/11/07 sassafras RE: Going to the chapel... 3
Wed 12/12/07 kcsmom RE: untitled 2
Thu 01/10/08 Anonymous RE: feeling upset... should I be? 3
Thu 01/10/08 Anonymous RE: physical attraction 2
Thu 01/10/08 eccentrica RE: decisions decisions 3
Thu 01/10/08 21stcenturygal RE: Blink 3
Fri 01/25/08 curvysmartgirl RE: What do you think of this? 3
Fri 01/25/08 kismet331 RE: To the World ... A Gift 3
Wed 01/30/08 Anonymous RE: Out in the Wind from Family 2
Wed 01/30/08 yuiop RE: authenticity 3
Wed 01/30/08 sakura1 RE: Religion vs. Cult 3
Fri 02/01/08 km12 RE: untitled 2
Fri 02/08/08 vampiressa RE: how rude! 3
Fri 02/08/08 msqueenie RE: untitled 2
Wed 02/13/08 Anonymous RE: prejudisim can it exist between a marriage?...... 3
Mon 03/10/08 wudaddy RE: She can't be convinced 2
Wed 04/02/08 trucksnastygirl1 RE: Change Me Please! 3
Wed 04/02/08 unclebilly RE: Trucker's Strike. 3
Thu 04/03/08 raceygirl RE: Athiest VS Christians 2
Thu 04/03/08 arynn RE: being ignored 2
Wed 04/09/08 anomyofthestate RE: wacko religious fools 3
Wed 04/09/08 pookiedoo RE: No more love because of weight gain. 3
Wed 04/09/08 Anonymous RE: untitled 1
Fri 04/11/08 Anonymous RE: Racial issues 2
Mon 04/21/08 brisbay RE: missin the single life 3
Mon 04/21/08 drumboi2 RE: It's not a sport? 3
Thu 05/01/08 screwauthority83 RE: I was sheltered, so I am asking. 3
Thu 05/01/08 Anonymous RE: Shady Lanes 3
Fri 05/02/08 curvysmartgirl RE: Serious question 3
Wed 05/07/08 Anonymous RE: savior 3
Tue 06/10/08 Anonymous RE: Obama and reparations 3
Wed 06/11/08 dell RE: Did it need to happen? 2
Wed 06/25/08 dawsonmckay RE: Women Finna HATE Me 2
Thu 07/10/08 sassafras RE: Rev. Jackson 3
Thu 07/10/08 Anonymous RE: Why follow the crowd? 2
Fri 08/22/08 frycook RE: slump 2
Fri 08/22/08 andrefub RE: born to be 2
Fri 08/22/08 texas818 RE: What to do with a bipolar daughter 3
Tue 08/26/08 king313 RE: This, NOT that..... 3
Tue 09/09/08 sunny396e RE: Your Opinion 2
Mon 09/29/08 cmgr RE: The winner!!!!! 2
Mon 09/29/08 strongnrelaxed RE: Two Americas 3
Wed 10/08/08 fishon12 RE: age yes or no 2
Tue 10/21/08 newnumbersguy32 RE: Personal Responsibility 2
Tue 10/28/08 jenny12 RE: It ain't over... 3
Wed 10/29/08 zerotohero2 RE: No Retarded Responses 3
Wed 11/05/08 Anonymous RE: Any potential problems with a one party nation 2
Fri 11/07/08 rubee RE: Word up 2
Wed 12/10/08 sofine RE: Do you compare yourself to others? 3
Wed 12/10/08 Anonymous RE: Is there anything that a man can take or apply to a his penis to make it more sensitive? 3
Wed 12/10/08 vwgirl RE: Project "know what you preach" 2009. 2
Fri 12/19/08 bytor RE: Co-Dependent, or Refreshing?....... 3
Fri 12/19/08 crnbrdfed2002 RE: rant on ghetto parents. 2
Wed 12/24/08 bytor RE: Your morning sociology connundrum.... "Youth Of America"- -[Rant] 2
Thu 01/22/09 mrtgman RE: Black on White Double Standard Must Stop!! 2
Wed 02/18/09 bytor RE: Now why would she think we'd judge HER?!?!?!?! 3
Wed 02/18/09 astridlove1 RE: What happened to my good judgment? Dating my HS pal turned into a fiasco of psychotic proportions. 3
Thu 02/26/09 cheroop RE: With all of the "I'm waiting for marriage for sex" post recently...I have to ask.... 3
Fri 02/27/09 dalaimama RE: I usually don't call people out but this post was extremely disturbing to me..... 3
Fri 02/27/09 kdtxchic30 RE: Now tell me this is not screwed up. 3
Tue 03/03/09 steady4rhyne RE: Is she doing Black women any justice? 2
Tue 03/03/09 gettingstronger RE: I did something that might appear mean-spirted. I "refused" the b'day card my mom sent me. Why? 2
Thu 03/05/09 screennamehere RE: Dont you hate it when you try to tell people something important but since it sounds unbelievable... 2
Thu 03/05/09 llafsroh RE: What Would Ralph Kramden say? 3
Thu 05/07/09 curvysmartgirl RE: Follow-up question on psychological vs. physical torture - this was a real situation... 3
Thu 05/07/09 bigcurt RE: Maybe the brains in our government should have 2
Thu 05/28/09 phenomenal1woman RE: Where have these values gone? 2
Fri 05/29/09 Anonymous RE: What do you think about a man in his 40's that has never been married or close to getting married? 2
Thu 07/23/09 Anonymous RE: Am I the problem or is he? 2
Thu 07/23/09 diana1386 RE: Heres my porbelm you single moms might be able to help on this one and understand 3
Fri 07/24/09 phenomenal1woman RE: Racism,Profiling or doing his Job?? 3
Fri 07/24/09 ikswoklaw RE: My 13 year old daughter thinks that she is sofat and needs to lose weight, she has gone too far... 2
Sat 07/25/09 anonymouspersona RE: Aside from racism between different races, why is there also racism between people within the same 3
Tue 07/28/09 1man4commonsense RE: Is police profiling a form of prejudice or is it a useful tool? explain. 2
Mon 08/31/09 curiousguy RE: people cant be this unbelieveable can they? 3
Mon 08/31/09 utsusu RE: Positive attracts positive ... as negative attracts negative ... 3
Wed 09/16/09 Anonymous RE: Too much stress; I need to sound off! 2
Tue 10/06/09 Anonymous RE: He loves her just the way she is. 3
Tue 10/06/09 eccentrica RE: Were you once "emotionally unavailable"? 3
Tue 10/06/09 vickyc3008 RE: Is it wrong to settle and will the spark eventually show up? 3
Wed 10/07/09 1966steven RE: How does a person stay happy, positive, optimistic, when the world is mostly shit and getting worse? 2
Wed 10/14/09 Anonymous RE: Is it possible to outgrow your significant other? What do you ya'll think? 3
Wed 11/04/09 misssparkle RE: So then is it safe to assume... 3

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About Me Essay:

You are young. So you know everything. You leap into the boat and begin rowing. But listen to me. Without fanfare, without embarrassment, without any doubt, I talk directly to your soul. Listen to me. Lift the oars from the water, let your arms rest, and your heart, and heart's little intelligence, and listen to me. There is life without love. It is not worth a bent penny, or a scuffed shoe. It is not worth the body of a dead dog nine days unburied. When you hear, a mile away and still out of sight, the churn of the water as it begins to swirl and roil, fretting around the sharp rocks--when you hear that unmistakable pounding--when you feel the mist on your mouth and sense ahead the embattlement, the long falls plunging and steaming--then row, row for your life toward it.

Mary Oliver


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