I am so proud of myself that I came to the following conclusion

I never ever go over the clothing purchases I have made that are in my dresser draws, or in the linen closet, or on the shelves in my closet or even the clothes hanging up. What I look at are the clothes in the plastic bags that are in the den closet and on one side of my bedroom closet. Those plastic bags I was OCD with. I wanted to look at them periodically to see if the clothes in the plastic bags are in good shape and fit me.

But then today I got a hold of myself and convinced myself everything I own fits me and is in great shape and I never have to go over any of my clothes ever again. This is how I came to this conclusion: I had to rearrange the plastic bags on my side of the den closet so the plastic bags would not fall out of the closet every time I took something that was hanging up. And I did the same thing for one side of my bedroom closet. The other side of my bedroom closet is fine and in addition I had memorized what I had on that side And as I was rearranging I peeked in eight plastic bags (four in each closet) and saw what I purchased and knew that every thing else was similar to all of my purchases (hanging up, in dresser drawers, the rest of the plastic bags etc).

And in addition I think it was because of my mom I felt I had to go over things periodically. My mom made me crazy but it was her anxiety talking. My mom was recently diagnosed with anxiety attacks. Also my mom likes everything form fitting - I don't. I mean I don't like clothes big but I like clothes to be loose and not formed to your body.

So I said to myself: "Ok now that you rearranged everything and you looked at eight bags and saw every thing is in great shape and is the right size I no longer feel I have to look in these bags in the future to convince myself the clothes are in great shape and fit. And the only reason I questioned if they are big is because of mom - she likes every thing to hug the body, I like clothes loose, not big, but not hugging the body"

Update: October 23, 2009.
To the few people who said I should give away the extras that is "NOT" even an option. I love all the clothing items I have purchased and plan on keeping them. If and when I give any clothing items away it will be because I have worn the clothes to death, NOT because they are just stored away and because right now I cannot get to them. SO please do not tell me to give away my belongings (clothes) that is not your place.

What time does Mickey Mouse wake up? Good Morning to all from Orlando!

I hate being the only one awake in a place that should be having fun 24/7!

How/when did you lose your virginity?

And to whom?

I lost mine when I was twenty, he was just a one night stand, he not only did a very good job making my first time enjoyable, but also dealing with me when I noticed that apparently my "first time" when I was 16 with my first boyfriend had had the same effect as dry-humping for 27 seconds- which would be *nothing*. To my credit I just laughed it off and made sure to tell my ex that he hadn't been able to get the job done the next day via his myspace.

What should I expect-

I'm going to sleep with a virgin for the first time. What should I expect from the whole experience? FYI - I'm not a virgin.

What would you do or not do?

if a couple in church obviously in love started smooching will attending services?

if a lesbian couple in church obviously in love started smooching will attending services?

if a gay man couple in church obviously in love started smooching will attending services?

Do you like scary movies?

How many brothers and sisters do you have?

<......I have 3 sisters and 3 brothers..but I'm the prettiest one/LOL...I always joke with them by saying that and they always say ''Ok...if thinking that makes you happy''/lol

How do I get the Spark back in my relationship?

I have recently found out that my partner does not have that "spark" with me. We have been on and off for 1 year and have been official for almost 2 months.

We have had our issues, but now that I know that my partner feels no spark, I realise our relationship is ending.

I love my partner and I love and am very attached to her daughter (20 months)

I know sometimes, that spark is just not there and there is nothing you can do about it, but if that is the case, I want to be able to walk away knowing that I did everything I could.

I'm meeting up with my partner tomorrow night to talk through things, and I fear that will be our final discussion and the end to our relationship.


Can anyone give me any suggestions of things I could do to get that spark before I lose 2 people very special to me??

what is he doing? and what do i do about it?

when my boyfriend first started his new job he started talking with a female coworker, which was fine with me, but then i noticed he was getting text messages all day and i asked him who was texting him and he told me a guy from work named nathan, and i believed him, but one day i read a text from "nathan" and he had had my boyfriend sweetheart, so i texted back asking who it was and the reply was Amanda, which is the name of the female coworker, when i asked him again if he was sure that the number in his phone was nathan he said yes and he swore it, i told him that i had texted back asking who it was and knew it was amanda and he said he lied to me because he knew i would be upset,,,, he said he was sorry for lying to me and that he wont do it again, but i dont believe him, and i dont know how to get him to stop texting her, i dont want to nag him and but i dont think i can trust him not to lie to me again

I got to hand it to myself..

I am simply amazing!

Don't you just hate people that brag about themselves?

it's so annoying.

Can I get a ruling from the ref?

Watching a movie. Sporto gets cheated on by the Princess. He gets fueled up on beer and is going to go beat up the Suave Dude.

They meet, but Sporto is so fueled up that Suave Dude kicks his ass. Pretty good. But that makes Princess go back to Sporto.

So, what should Sporto do? Should he sober up and go fight Suave Dude again? Or should he leave it be, because he had his shot and got his ass kicked?

You Make The Call!