GIVE ADVICE ON FRIENDSHIP

just askin . . . . .

"I can't regret what I did for love, what I did for love.....look my eyes are dry.....

....and I won't forget what I did for love....
.......what I did for love".....


Do you ever regret what you did for Love?

for a change of pace....what is your favorite....

George Strait song?.............


Mine....."I Can Still Make Cheyenne".....

When was the last time you played hooky from work?

What did you do and where did you go?

Come on, fess up ...

what's your favorite.....

Cat Stevens' song?.........


Mine........"Father and Son"......

So what are your plans for the weekend?

Here in Canuckland, it's a long weekend .... Part of Saturday and Sunday will be used to move my two eldest daughter's furniture and stuff down to each of their new bed room. Monday, no idea yet.

By them I mean people of course...sorry my bad.

I find it hard to get socialized...I feel there is some kinda invisible wall between me and them!

I find it hard to get socialized...I feel there is some kinda invisible wall between me and them!

How many questions do you think you asked in your time on here?

Since 07 about 20 for me. It's time I do more.

What to say to reconnect with an old friend?

(I'm sorry this is so long.)

I had a very close friend that I've known since 3rd grade. We were inseperable & her parents were never really there for her,  so my family was like her family because she was ALWAYS with us. She pretty much was like the sister I never had. It's hard to explain how close we really were in just a paragraph, but it seemed like nothing could break our bond.

When I was 14, my family & I moved out of state for my dad's job. My friend was very hurt by this because she felt like her family was abandoning her. She was angry & took it out on me. She came to visit us a couple times after I moved & we remained in contact up until I was about 16...& I honestly don't even remember why we stopped talking or how it happened (I know we didn't get in an argument or anything). I think we just kind of grew apart, which is normal as people get older. Last year, she found me on Facebook & sent me a friend request, in which I accepted of course. She messaged me, we talked
& I soon discovered (by the way she was talking) it seemed like she was still kind of mad at me for the fact that I moved away. Which, is something that was out of my control. She said, "If you would've still been here, we would've still been close." I told her politely, that it was out of my control & I wish I never moved either. We have stopped talking since then, but we still remain friends on Facebook & I still wish her a happy birthday every year. 

I've had many friends over the years, but it seems that I've never had a friendship comparable to the one I had with her. I really miss her & Iam always thinking of her. It makes me sad that our bond was broken. I don't expect things to happen overnight, but I would like to reconnect with her & try to have a friendship again. Even though it has been many years, it seems like a waste to let that go.

I would prefer to hear from people who have had a similar experience, but anyone is welcomed to give their two cents. Iam just really confused on how to go about this, or if I even should. 

My question is, what should I say? It's almost like I have too much to say, that I don't even know where to start. I don't want what I say to come off as if I've never moved on, or as weird. But I just feel like Iam getting older & I don't want to live with the regret of never saying anything.

I'm returning home after 2 years and I need to make some new friends

I have been having a great time traveling but I am returning home and need some help making some new friends. I am now quite poor and I will be quite busy with University where I will be much older than my classmates so I am looking for some creative tips, something beyond join clubs and take classes.
To complicate matters, I am an introvert (though not shy) and I don't drink so going out at night doesn't really work for me.