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Married Life / 23 hours ago Back To Top

My husband sent another man a picture of himself.

What would be the reason for a man to send another man a picture of his face????
I'm so confused. In the picture my husband has his hair pulled down by his chin to make it look like he had a beard. No text or words..just a picture.
1st thought-- the guy is his barber'-??
2nd thought-- the guy wanted to see what he looked like with a beard because they talked about it before -joking...
3rd thought- WTF--?! I don't know what's going on. Is he "talking" to this guy. I know he had asked him to borrow money before.
I only met the guy once since my husband.tattoos him. And he was with his wife.
My husband had made some slightly homophobic remarks before. I hope and pray he's
not one of the homophobic men who are really gay. I don't care of he is.I would be
really surprised because he's cheated on me with multiple women for years.

- Asked by Female, 29-35
Married Life / 1 day ago Back To Top

Guys, why is it so hard, to be dedicated to someone you claim you love, vs, being FULL ON to a job??

Choices... Many of us have made them.. Some good/some bad.. Tragically, (it's TRAGIC to me anyways).. Some guys, find it so easier to be 'married' to their jobs ,other than taking their marital vows or dating relationship, seriously.. WHY??!! Can it NOT make your love life better if you bestowed, the same form of concern upon your personal life? Is it really that hard?? Could it be cause you're taking your mate desires & needs for granted??? Am I driving it home for you?? Many ladies feel so unappreciated.. When will the deserving ones, be your constant love??? * To be fair, I know men have had a similar issue(s).. However, speaking from a woman's mind, I just want to know.. Feel free to grant a response..

Update: April 17, 2014.
I absolutely appreciate , all the thought out responses... It means a lot, to be able to read things, of this nature & get various views that matters regarding love & life... The (1) response, that I questioned, was an individual's feeling as though that MEN life expectancy is shortened, due to a woman's expectations or nagging??? I truly hope that's NOT how he feels...or ANYONE..... Hopefully, someday, (if we're not already), be with whomever or whatever complements us... Not needing someone to MAKE us happy but, more like be content within ourselves to be alone, if we choose to... Living life, one heart beat @ a time..

- Asked by dunchuss, A Thinker, Female, 36-45, Artist / Musician / Writer
Married Life / 1 day ago Back To Top

While laying in bed with my husband last night,

He asked me what I'd most like to do with his body.

"Identify it", apparently wasn't the right answer.

- Asked by A Married Girl, Female, Who Cares?, Portland
Married Life / 1 day ago Back To Top

How Can I Make Husband Feel Better about Disability?

My husband has a mild case of Cerebral Palsy and has very limited things he can do with his left hand. He always feels bad about it and feels he is good at nothing. Are there anything at all people with the use of one hand can be good at. How can I boost his confidence about his CP?

- Asked by kittytruelove, A Thinker, Female, 36-45
Married Life / 1 day ago Back To Top

My husband got a new job in another state, will I be able to get a divorce and child support?

We are legally married still, and I will not be moving with him. We have 2 kids, will I be able to divorce him and get child support if he moves?

Update: April 16, 2014.
To those who responded that I am interested in his $, well firdt off don't be so quick to judge as I have more money than he does, but by law he must continue to support his children. You don't know me, and you don't know my husband, but I certainly got to know you by your wise remarks. Thanks to all the others who gave me some solid advice. A man who loves his career ambitions more than his family is not a keeper.

- Asked by A Thinker, Female, 36-45, New York
Married Life / 1 day ago Back To Top

Is this odd or is it just me?

I have noticed changes in my husband's attitude this year which I find odd. Since he got his dream career job, he has acted like he is something else. Almost like he's better than other people.We go to the gym to work out and he tends to watch the people around us and give them strange looks. Last night he was doing this and I asked him why he was making a face because he's has been doing this since we began going. He said " These people are weird". I told him that maybe we are weird too.
His attitude at home is almost stand offish sort of conceited. Sometimes little things are not to his liking like this morning I made him breakfast and he said" I didn't want this". Has anyone ever had a spouse who became this way when they got their successful job?
Honestly; I think it's ridiculous to have an attitude like this.

- Asked by Female, 36-45
Married Life / 1 day ago Back To Top

Marriage is knowing

each other's buttons...

and pressing them repeatedly, when bored.

- Asked by Male, Who Cares?
Married Life / 2 days ago Back To Top

Fiance asked for engagement ring back after two years. Mixed feelings about returning it;need advice

After more than two years, relationship frizzles out. Fiance ask for ring back and I have mixed emotions. He never was willing to set date ... so was it an engagement ring or just something to keep me quiet :)

- Asked by A Cool Mom, Female, 46-55, Baltimore, Executive
Married Life / 2 days ago Back To Top

Do you give engagement ring back after relationship frizzles out?

After eight years, two of which engaged after which relationship grew distant, fiance ask for ring back. Mixed feelings here; please advise

- Asked by A Cool Mom, Female, 46-55, Baltimore, Executive