GIVE ADVICE ON SEX & INTIMACY

How do you deal with members of the opposite sex testing your self control?

I have liked this guy for two years now over the weekend i made him chocolate ice cream bars and I've learned that when he really likes something he tells me so a lot. Well Monday i was coming down the stairs and he was leaving his apartment and i almost ran in to him but stopped before he said hey to me in a breathy tone. I let him go ahead of me and he turned his head to look back at me and said so good in that sexy tone of his and then he asked what i was doing today and i said going to the store and he asked what i was making for dinner that night i said spaghetti and he gave me a look. When we got to our cars he said have a good day. I don't know what to do should i tell him that I'm loosing my self control.

credit card company questions...thanks?

if a payment is rejected by your cc company, do you have to pay the debt collector directly, or can you make arrangements with the cc company who originally holds the account....the letter from the debt collector states that the acct is out of my cc companies hands, and its into theirs and i cant pay my cc company directly for the payment missing, i have to pay the debt collectors.......i spoke to my cc company and made two payments directly to them and asked about the pending "money owed", the agent told me that has nothing to do with them, they do not deal with this particular debt collector company. now if have any other debt with another company, then that maybe where it is from...other than that im in good standing with my current cc company.....i had the cc company agent check to see if the payments i made for this particular "charge owed" was posted on the acct she stated yes...well i called the debt people and he was rude and a butthole and he stated the payment i made to my cc company has nothing to do with them the "debt collectors", he then said either you pay us or we will turn you over to the credit beauru.....what should i do?

my cc company agent told me that this debt has nothing to do with them, they do not deal with this debt collector company.......any payments due to them, past or present..... its handle directly from the bank....they dont turn you over to any debt collectors...my cc company stated they have no clue who these people are...and too top it off if you turned me over to a debt collector, shouldnt you know the name of the debt collector you refered me too....and wouldnt you send me a letter stating that we turned you over to so and so and they will handle this account further

Shouldn't women in their 20s and 30s reduce crack intake, especially professional women?

Shouldn't women in their 20s and 30s reduce alcohol intake especially professional women?

It seems to me that a lot of the health problems that these women experience such as infertility, cancer, diabetes, rapid aging is because women in these age brackets especially professional women consume alcohol way too much similar to men but their physiology does not process alcohol as efficiently as men. Despite all the women hitting the gym they can't reverse the damage. Exercising simply delays the inevitable unless it is coupled with real lifestyle change.

I have seen women who are in their 60s who never touched alchohol or smoked and don't look a day over 40 and are very healthy.
Part of it could be genetics but I don't think women understand what they are doing their bodies. With more freedom comes responsibility to their health. What do you think?

AO Poll: Do you believe That critically-ill persons have the legal right to die?

Pick one out of these three choices:

1. Yes. All should have the legal right to die.

2. Only in exceptional circumstances.

3. No. I think it's playing God.

Defend your position ...

Shouldn't women in their 20s and 30s reduce alcohol intake especially professional women?

It seems to me that a lot of the health problems that these women experience such as infertility, cancer, diabetes, rapid aging is because women in these age brackets especially professional women consume alcohol way too much similar to men but their physiology does not process alcohol as efficiently as men. Despite all the women hitting the gym they can't reverse the damage. Exercising simply delays the inevitable unless it is coupled with real lifestyle change.

I have seen women who are in their 60s who never touched alchohol or smoked and don't look a day over 40 and are very healthy.
Part of it could be genetics but I don't think women understand what they are doing their bodies. With more freedom comes responsibility to their health. What do you think?

Sorry I gave up the Best Sex

I miss the man who used to thrill me in bed. We didn't date, but he was great in bed. He is or was a truck driver in VA. He is divorced with grown kids. My former roommate introduced us. If you think you know/knew me tell me what I wore our first time together. I really miss you. *Darlin*

This is a **Public Service Announcement**

Girlfriend/Boyfriend = Communicating and spending time together in real life

FWB = Sexual intercourse only in real life. You do not hang out, go to or expect to be invited to family functions or be acknowledged in public.

Friend = Someone you enjoy spending time with, but not attracted to in real life or online.

Dating = seeing someone in real life on a frequent basis. Discovering what you like/do not like about that person and being able to communicate honestly and objectively. [Online communication is not dating or relationships, they are the prelude to meeting and dating. One or two dates are just that--nothing long-term.

Relationship = Mutual conversation and consent to see only that person.

Long Distance Relationships = Being in two locations but seeing someone face to face at LEAST once/month with thoughts of one of you relocating if possible.

Engagement = Asking someone to spend the rest of their life with you in one location and living life in real life.

Marriage = Life time commitment to one person. Pretty much self explanatory.

Feel free to kick in if I have left something out =0)

Update: June 18, 2013.
Thanks everyone, you all bring up good points in addition to my list. This should be a "header" on this site don't you think?? LOL I wish I had more stars. =0)

If women prefer bad boys over nice guys, what do you suggest I do?

Some girl I just went out with had the nerve to tell me I was a really kind person and that it shines through on other people, but she just wasn't that into me. I'm thinking, "Gee, I'm a kind guy! Well that really takes a load off my mind." I then deleted her off my phone contacts list, all her text messages, and phone logs to ensure I forgot her phone number because I don't want to settle for being "just friends." Either you're interested or you're not.

I wasn't always so kind just so you know. Should I now start telling my future dates about the time when I lost my temper and threw my puppy down on the patio and broke her leg when I was 11? Should I tell them about the time I tried to drown another kid in the pool? Do I tell them about the time I pulled a chair out from under my brother's girlfriend and made her fall on her ass just because I thought it was funny?

How about the time I smashed some black guy's head into a pillar when he came after me and broke his nose? And I liked it, too. I taught some street thug a lesson or two. Dem black mofos ain't such bad mothafuckas when fights dem all alone without dey homies around.

Or should I tell them about the time I perform the Heimlich maneuver on some guy at an Asian restaurant when he was choking on a piece of shrimp? Do I tell them about the time I worked in a restaurant and some girl caught on fire when the flame from the grill backdrafted on her, and I was the one who put her out with the sprayer nozzle from the sink while she looked like a Roman candle?

Do I tell them about the time I called 911 when I heard some woman screaming after she dropped her baby on the sidewalk, and I was the only person who did anything while everyone else stood there with their thumbs up their asses and watched? Or what about the time last fall when I found a cat who'd been run over and her back end was crushed? I was the one who got her out of the parking lot and took care of her until the owner got home. You tell me!

Update: June 18, 2013.
Oh, I see! So let me get this straight! Women love to fall in love with the bad boys. Then when they see they're not so bad after their brass balls shrink like prunes after they get the women pregnant, then they all of a sudden like the nice guys? They like us because they expect us to raise their kids after they fucked up with the wrong guys? Is that why I keep attracting all these single moms trying to get their grooves back? Or do they finally start liking nice guys when they get old and their tits start sagging, and they have no more eggs left in the carton. Then they sit around and bitch about there not being any good men left, right? Get this straight, ladies! It's not my responsibility to raise your goddamn kids.

What do you make of this adolescent behavior?

I once knew a 12-year-old boy who used to urinate on dogs and cats. He did it for about a year or so and then he stopped. The child was sexually abused. Do you think there's more to the story than we might know?

Has anyone else ever done a juice cleanse?

Yesterday, I started my first day of my 60-day juice fast. For 8 weeks, I'm going to ingest nothing but extracted water from fruits and vegetables from which I put into a juicer. I'm also drinking lots of water to kill my hunger pangs. This is supposed to help me drop a lot of weight and help my system reboot itself.

The idea I got from none other than an Australian by the name of Joe Cross. He made a documentary on Hulu and Netflix called Fat, Sick, and Nearly Dead. In the fall of 2007, Joe came to America to do the cleanse. The first 30 days he spent in New York. Then he traveled all the way to California.

Joe weighed over 300 pounds and lost close to 100 by the time he finished the cleanse. On his way to California, Joe met a trucker in Arizona who had some of the same medical conditions Joe did, and the guy weighed about 450 pounds. The latter agreed to do the cleanse and lost up to 250 pounds.

Ironically, Joe Cross was in Austin yesterday giving a sermon which I attended on my first day of the cleanse. Last night I went to bed with a bad headache from caffeine withdrawals. They say the first few days are hell, but then you feel spruce after that. Has anybody else ever done a juice cleanse? How long did you do it for?