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Sex & Intimacy / 28 minutes ago

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Does this guy want to date me or simply want to just be friends?

He and I have had sex twice in five months but I made it very clear to him that I didn't want to date him until he got himself together in terms of working again and headed in the direction he wants to go in. But he and I seem to be in a pattern of texting each other every morning or evening. But based on his responses in these few examples what do you guys think

First thing he knew or suspected I was going on a date with someone on a friday night

He texted me first thing saturday morning wanting to know how my date when

Than another time my gf (mentioned it in front of him) that one of her guy friends wanted to go on a date with me. I simply said in response to her comment oh but I said thanks but no thanks

His response was "Oh poor guy"

Than I joked around with him asking if he were out cheating

His response was " oh No never that"

Than he says that we are going at my "tempo" what ever that means what do you guys think?

- Asked by Female, 22-25

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Race, Religion & Politics / 33 minutes ago

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If you wanted to leave the US because of your feelings about the way the government was running ...

the country,where do you think you could find a better place to live??? WHY???

- Asked by barbb, A Thinker, Female, Who Cares?, Who Cares?

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Sex & Intimacy / 56 minutes ago

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My best friend's GF is hitting on me!!

Ok here's my situation. My best friend has been working overseas for the past 4 months and he's expected to remain there for the remainder of 2010. However, his girlfriend of 2 years is still in town.

Now since he traveled, his GF and I have become kinda close since she's originally from out of town and doesn't have too many friends. It started it out as a normal friendship, but recently I've started feeling some changes. We started talking more on the phone, text more, chat all day long on MSN, etc. We've been also subtly flirting, the kind of flirting that is usual among friends of the opposite sex. I didn't think much of all that, and figured that she must be feeling lonely without her BF.

However, last weekend she told me she wanted to go out clubbing, so I took her out to this club. Towards the end of the night we were both getting kinda of drunk, and she started grinding against me while dancing, grabbing my butt and so on. I was aware of what's happening but I didnt do anything to stop it. (Mind you she's very hot and I thought it was the alcohol playing). We finished up around 2AM and as I was in the cab with her she rested her hand on my thigh, then started going up until she was lightly rubbing against my penis. It felt so good that I couldnt stop her. Then she leaned over and tried to kiss me on the mouth. That is when I stopped her and told her that we shouldnt be doing this. She withdrew, but didn't seem offended.

The next day she called me and acted all normal and told me that she had so much fun the other night. She didnt mention anything about what happened in the cab and didnt seem awkward about it. We went out the next night as well, and she was touchy and flirty with me all night long.

My question is: What to do about this situation? Should I put an end to all this and tell my best friend, or should I go all the way with her and see how things go (taking into consideration that shes extremely attractive and I cant seem to get her out of my mind these days)

- Asked by A Guy Critical, Male, 22-25

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Friendship / 1 hour ago

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Good Morning from Houston Texas and it's Body Check Time.

How is everyone? Are you dry or are you wet? It's been raining here and gettig cold again. Well I guess it's a Hot Starbucks morning. Have a great one and enjoy your day.

- Asked by lifestyle, A Father Figure, Male, 56-65, Houston

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Dating / 1 hour ago

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Question about Online Dating...

This is for men and women.

After you put the finishing touches on your profile (cute pictures, funny description about yourself, etc) what do you do after that???

Is it like real dating were the women wait to be contacted and the guys send all the "winks" and messages?

- Asked by Female, 26-28

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Dating / 1 hour ago

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How to get him back?

He was the one want to breakup and I have told him I don't want to, but he insisted and told me to move on. I truly love him, I can't forget him, I want to get him back. I know he is seeing other girls. Any suggestion for me. I truly love him.

- Asked by Female, 29-35

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Sex & Intimacy / 1 hour ago

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Altered English ....

The Washington Post's Style Invitational asked readers to take any word from the dictionary, alter it by adding, subtracting, or changing one letter, and supply a new definition. Here are some recent winners:

Reintarnation: Coming back to life as a hillbilly.

Foreploy: Any misrepresentation about yourself for the purpose of getting laid.

Giraffiti: Vandalism spray-painted very, very high.

Sarchasm: The gulf between the author of sarcastic wit and the person who doesn't get it.

Inoculatte: To take coffee intravenously when you are running late.

Hipatitis: Terminal coolness.

Osteopornosis: A degenerate disease.

Karmageddon: It's, like, when everybody is sending off all these really bad vibes, right? And then, like, the Earth explodes and it's, like, a serious bummer.

Glibido: All talk and no action.

Dopeler effect: The tendency of stupid ideas to seem smarter when they come at you rapidly.

Intaxication: Euphoria at getting a tax refund, which lasts until you realize it was your money to start with.

And, the pick of the bunch:

Ignoranus: A person who's both stupid and an asshole.

- Asked by oldman52, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 56-65, Sydney, Retired

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Sex & Intimacy / 1 hour ago

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Bad But True Headlines Joke

March Planned For Next August

Lingerie Shipment Hijacked--Thief Gives Police The Slip

Patient At Death's Door--Doctors Pull Him Through

Diaper Market Bottoms Out

Stadium Air Conditioning Fails--Fans Protest

Prostitutes Appeal to Pope

Lawyers Give Poor Free Legal Advice

20-Year Friendship Ends at Altar

Half of U.S. High Schools Require Some Study for Graduation

Blind Woman Gets New Kidney from Dad She Hasn't Seen in Years

Death Causes Loneliness, Feelings of Isolation

- Asked by oldman52, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 56-65, Sydney, Retired

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Sex & Intimacy / 1 hour ago

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dont know what to make about this

I am new to internet dateing and i have noticed a lot of guys dont seem to have a main profile photo on their profile but seem to have locked in photos and why not a main profile photo should i be supicious of these profiles could it be that they are hiding something like being married or living with someone or have a partner should i avoid these profiles like some comments on this issue

- Asked by Female, 46-55

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