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Jokes, Polls & Anything Else / 14 minutes ago

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You know you're getting old when....

You know your getting old when your husband asks if you want to go out tonight and you tell him "no" seeing as we are going out tomorrow night. Then he responds "yeah probably a good idea so we don't have to feel like crap for two days."

Now I remember a time where I would go out every night of the week with the exception of Tuesday nights. Call this our rest night...LOL! All the while I was working and going to school. Even later in life I could hang all weekend. Well not anymore. Again I'm getting old!

- Asked by kdtxchic30, A Thinker, Female, 36-45, Dallas, Who Cares?

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Dating / 27 minutes ago

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*Prince or a FRAUD? Cold feet.

*My recent boy has been pursuing me from day one. He was the one who asked us to start dating and sets up every date. My dad is coming into town this wknd (He never comes and prob wont meet my guy for a long time after) and my guy is freaked to meet him. His exact words were "Nah, I'll pass, too soon!" After we got off the phone, he said he'll go if I want. It's half hearted. Why is he pursuing this relationship but freaked out to do coffee with my dad and I. Is this sounding shady?

- Asked by beachgirlie71, A Trendsetter, Female, 22-25, Newark

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Jokes, Polls & Anything Else / 29 minutes ago

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I am enforcing rules in this house!!!

I am making a list of rules and a cleaning list for all of us to follow--I am getting a new roommate and want to make sure things are set before she moves in and understands them. My other roommate needs to follow them because she is lazy and messy. I have the "master lease holder" and have the authority to politely ask them to leave ie kick a roommate out if I find a good reason. I am just too nice right now, so I figure if theres a typed list with signatures...

Anyway, know any good rules in case a situation comes up that would need addressing? Also, how do you think the chores should be split up? Kitchen, bathroom, living room--and should I include on there how often my roommate needs to clean out the litter box, or is that pushing it? (she cleans it MAYBE once a week and has two cats)

- Asked by A Thinker, Female, 22-25, Student

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Family & Parenting / 33 minutes ago

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Sanity or no sanity?

I am currently unemployed, live with my sister, and am her primary caregiver. She is terminally ill from ovarian cancer. My focus is taking care of her. She is at the point she needs someone to be in the same room with her at all times.

I live here along with her husband and son who is 36 years old. Neither one of them do anything around the house to help. I do it because if I don't my sister will attempt to do it even though she can't stand for more than 5 minutes. I have talked with both of them expressing my need for help. It works for a couple days. I try to leave the house at least once a week sometimes two. There are weeks that I don't leave the house at all because my brother-in-law won't sit with her or just leaves the house. I'm beginning to go insane.

Here is my question. Am I being selfish in wanting to leave here every day and let my brother-in-law figure out what to do during the day? I would come back at night to take care of her since that is the time she really wants me here.

I hope all this makes sense.
Doxie

- Asked by doxie777, A Creative, Female, 36-45, Portland, Administrative

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Dating / 33 minutes ago

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Well That's Odd, Michael...

What quirky, cute or unusual habit does your S/O have that you adore? That you hate?

My s/o calls me by full first name which is odd. It's usually shortened to "Tiff". But he calls me "Tiffany" frequently in conversation and I find it odd to hear but endearing because it's uniquely "his" thing.

He has a bad habit of chewing his fingernails and the skin around them sometimes. Those little chewed nubs scrape me sometimes...ugh. Lol

- Asked by thottienc, A Career Woman, Female, 29-35, Charlotte, Who Cares?

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Dating / 35 minutes ago

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"she told me she always has a boyfriend"

someone i was considering dating told me she always has a boyfriend. i think she has a guy and when she finds someone more compatible, then she breaks up with the guy she is with. is this common?

the other type seems to be the women looking for "the One" and will go for long periods without anyone while striving for this objective. this type thinks that the first type is "bad" as not being the right way to do it, maybe thats what they were taught as a little girl..

does this resonate with anyone? if you are a woman, which type is closest to matching who you are?

- Asked by Male, 46-55

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Race, Religion & Politics / 37 minutes ago

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This is why CNN has lower ratings than reruns of Headline News.

People who read CNN -- supposedly "well-informed," right? -- say that Republicans are to blame 43% and Democrats 16%. What happened, did CNN viewers and readers have a massive stroke where they blacked out for the last 10 months, or are they just that ignorant of current events? This is the average CNN viewer's thoughts on Obama's presidency:

Barack Obama (mmm mmm mmm!) is a gud man. He is black and the first blak president. He gives us money from his stash. Stick it to the rich guys they suck. I smoke some weed.

CNN: making irrelevance news-worthy.

Update: November 20, 2009.
LOL at jackstraw's response. I could do much better, but then all of the liberals would start simpering about how mean it was. All of the liberals who will rush in here and proclaim jackstraw to be amazing, just like they do for Gorbachev and Jimmy Carter. Remember: failure equals success for liberals!

- POP'd by istillhatescreennames, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 66 or older

This was a CNN poll today on their website,

The question was "Which political party bears most of the blame for this recession?"

The choices were:
Republicans
Democrats
Neither
Both

I voted Both, because it's true. Politicians in general do not work for the good of the country, but my opinion is beside the point. What would you answer in this poll?

Update: November 20, 2009.
A lot of our answers were Both, but this is how the 234496 votes to the opinion poll on CNN fell: 43% Republicans, 37% Both, 16% Democrats, 4% Neither. My first impression is that people were remembering the war spending during the time the Republicans were in power and voted accordingly.

- Asked by damon8r, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 29-35, Norfolk

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Career / 52 minutes ago

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I'm scared about starting my new job today...

I don't even have my scrubs yet...I'm not sure if they'll let me get by on my training day? (I'm broke! ..till tomorrow)

Not to mention..this place is a maze.

Help!

- Asked by jillopo, An Alternative Girl, Female, 26-28, Fashion

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Career / 1 hour ago

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i need career advice.. can you have more than one career?

I know i either want to be a teacher, phychologist or a social worker.. i just cant decide. I know you're supposed to go with your passion, and what you enjoy doing, and i'd enjoy all of those careers i just cant decide. However, i'm kinda leaning more towards being a pychologist. But being a social worker also appeals to me. I love helping people anyway i can. I cant do both can i?

- Asked by Female, 18-21

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