Body Image Issues Interfering With My Love Life or Lack There Of

So i'm really attracted to this guy but when he takes his shirt off it just all goes down the drain. I really digg his personality and style but not his body.

I'm not one to judge because to be honest I'm not even okay with my own body, but even if I was okay that still isn't fair to either of us.

How can I stop being a shallow bitch? I can't choose these things or can I?