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What would truly terrify you???? As in everyday life not something superficial.

I ask because I watched a talk show with a prominent actor talking of what would terrify him in an acting situation.

It occurred to me that I would be terrified to become apathetic. The idea of not truly caring at all seems like falling into a deep, dark hole. I would much rather face something negative than to acquire no feeling either way. That is oblivion.

It reminded me of a show I saw about a woman with a chaotic home life with kids and a husband. Everything was pandemonium and constant activity, and she wished for total silence in her life.

The wish was granted, and the result was she was invisible and no one could see or hear her. She roamed around trying to find someone that she could reach in sight or sound, but it was useless. So she was more miserable than before.

I would only want to be invisible if I could switch back any time I wanted.

What do you think?

I do not have a sex drive. I do not know how to get one. Does anyone no how I can raise my sex drive

I do not have any sexual fantasy. I have only had two sexual partners in five years. I do not know what to do during sex but lay there. I need help please.

Rock Trivia: The Beatles, Stones, Led Zeppelin, and the Moody Blues all have something in common...

...they were the top four bands of 1969, and NONE of them performed at Woodstock that year.

I love Rock Trivia...got any to add?

Beatles vs Rolling Stones. Which do you like best?

Both are some of the greatest bands in the world. The Rolling Stones are pure rock and roll and simply timeless,and the Beatles, well, they're the freakin' Beatles! What do YOU think? This is just for fun :)

Why don't people just talk about whether they want kids BEFORE marriage?

I'm baffled by how many people don't discuss whether or not they want children, including their general timeline for having them and how many, before tying the knot. It's a pretty huge issue to ignore.

I guess there might be a rare case where someone flat-out lies about what they want in order to snare someone, but if my husband lied to me about wanting kids, I'd be so hurt and betrayed I wouldn't even want to remain married to him, much less trap him with an unwanted baby.

Why do people not discuss this incredibly important issue before marriage?

My married friend is trapping her husband with a baby

She is stopping her birth control and planning to get pregnant.She said if he found out he would use condoms or stop having sex with her. She got an ovulation test kit and said she is going to find out when shes ovulating and have sex.

What can I do? I tried to say it was a bad idea...do i support her in these actions?

I'm taking (2) so the H#ll with the Universe! What you gonna do???

Are you a professional or recreational ass-licker?

Was this an appropriate gift?

I had an informal gathering for my birthday at my home not too long ago, and I invited a male friend for work. Several guests gave me presents, although I wasn't expecting anything. And this male work friend gave me an interesting kitchen tool as well as bunny ears on a headband. I wasn't sure what to do with the bunny ears, so I said thank you. Later I had some great sex with my husband while wearing them!

Is this an appropriate gift?

This man I had feelings for (sort of still do) picked up a seashell for me when he was at the beach last week and wrote "4RM (his name)" with a happy face on it and gave it to me on Saturday when he saw me. I haven't heard from him since Saturday; we used to text each other everyday.

As a way of thanking him for the kind gesture, I've ordered a geode off Amazon (it's only $3.99) and plan on giving it to him on Saturday when I see him. The geode is from Mexico which I think adds significance to it since he is Mexican.

He has made it clear he only wants to be friends with me which I accept.

Do you think this gift is over the top and pathetic or will it seem like a sweet gesture? I don't want to appear like I'm trying too hard.

Has anyone ever told you something that was devastatingly shocking while you were driving or in the

...process of doing something that was dangerous??

Ex; Like while you were driving, and the shock of what the person said, almost made you run off the road ???

I got a big ole' boner just readin' this.....

YAHOO!!!!!!!!!!!

Did you know that sexual dysfunction (like ED) is between your ears? An Urologist told me & my s/o..

My s/o had finishd chemo & radiation therapy for cancer. He beat the odds, thank G_d. But, when the time was "right", he couldn't ... He refused to try it again a month later, so I called the Cancer Clinic's info line and got some excellent "fyi's". My s/o agreed to go see the Urologist - and he beckoned me into the exam room.

The doc told my guy that ED is very common after cancer treatment & gave us a script for Viagra plus lots of stuff to read. The human mind is very powerful. In our case, at least, his brain was sending out mixed messages. Gotta look for good info, advice from a medical source. "Knowledge", self education puts you in the winner's circle, everytime!! Try Googling "ED" (or "erectile dysfunction")

Lets hear from all the men!

Right,I'm so unattractive, yet, he gets a hard on in seconds of touching me!? What is it to this? I know if I were a guy and I'm with a very ugly girl, that I'm not physically attracted to, I just wouldn't even have the desire no matter how horny I am!