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Bf says he is not emotionally ready for marriage

My bf and I have been together 3.5 years. We are committed to each other, not to mention exclusive. My bf makes little jokes sometimes about how we would do things when we are old. Sometimes he talks of how something would affect our kids (currently non-existent) in future. Such conversations usually come in a spontaneous flow following something else we would be talking about. It seems to me that we two are meant to be together. Except that he has not proposed matrimony to me yet. He knows I want marriage. However, if I hint jokingly towards marriage (which is not very often) he remains quiet. On one such occasion I felt so much despair that I couldn't help getting tears in my eyes as I have begun to wonder if that is ever going to happen. Seeing me distressed, he mentioned that he is "not emotionally ready" yet for marriage. I understand that men like to feel safe in terms of money and job before they settle. But he has a good job, meaning he earns a decent amount even if not rich and has enough to be able to provide. Besides I am not a high maintenance kind of person and like to contribute myself. We both want children and are in our 30s so I personally do not think its a great idea to postpone this indefinitely.

I would appreciate it if anyone could help me in this dilemma. Why should an otherwise committed man be not emotionally ready for marriage? Guys what are some of the factors that would make you want to procrastinate marriage even if you are truly committed and want to marry some day?

My partner is receiving help from a male lactation consultant. I want to stop it now. Am I wrong?

My partner has given birth our first child few weeks ago without any surgery. I am so glad for them. She finds problem to nursing our baby since the baby birth. However, I have to went away for a week for my job. Then she talked me about her lactation problem that getting difficult and request her to see a doctor as soon as possible.
I find that she is receiving help from a male pediatrician. She closely discusses about lactation problems so that doctor can find out her problems. So far, it is quite normal and acceptable. But, I find that it is getting closer after discussion.
I find when she breast-out and start feeding to our baby, doctor tushes and squeezes her breast several times. And she leaks milk on his hand. Even he pumps her breast if it looks full. Yet, they looks quite normal in the job.
It is not pleasant for me. So. I already discussed it with my partner. Unfortunately, she misunderstood me and request me not to find here any sexuality. She thinks doctors are should not judge as their sex. It is so backward thinking.
What should I do?
How I dissuade her?

How is it possible? 20 characters my butt

What could possibly be so wrong with me that I've been celibate for 6 years?

My BoyFriend just went to jail and is gone for 5 months, what are cute love quotes?

I need Quotes about love and missing him.

Update: May 23, 2013.
i love my boyfriend an im not about to tell him goodbye im gunna wait for him to get out im not gunna go for anyone else or be rude to the man i love, you dont know him like i do hes in jail for AWOLing an missing curfew and some stupid shit that is just kid stuff we are teenagers inlove we both have proven we would do anything for eachother

Why would she randomly unblock me on facebook?

So I got blocked on facebook by a girl I dated for 3 months about 2 months ago.

In a nut shell she lead me badly on during the 3 months eventually telling me she wasn't over her ex a day prior to her birthday which I had arranged something nice for her and bought her a nice present etc. I think she felt guilty about this. I was pretty distraught as you can imagine. She even admitted she was cruel and sorry to lead me on.

I maintained contact with her afterwards out of curiosity really, which was a bad move. She originally said she wanted to keep in touch and hang out with me but nothing ever came of it and when I asked her about hanging out 3 weeks after we stopped dating she said that I was pressuring her!? Which baffled me! Despite this I still said Hi every now and then and she responded but very reluctantly. She obviously didn't want to speak to me so I accepted it. Suddenly I noticed she blocked me on facebook out of the blue. I did nothing wrong at all...I was quite hurt. She even deleted my phone number randomly too as I had texted her the previous week and got a "Who is this?" reply.

However a few days ago which was 7 weeks later I saw her show up on my friends status. Clicked the name and it was her. So she went out of her way to unblock me after 7 weeks!? She hasn't messaged me and I am no longer her friend as blocking removes the person you block as a friend.

Why would she do this and not just leave me blocked forever? Its not like I would ever see her again in the real world or anything.

I know its a petty question but I have always blocked someone in the past and never looked back.

Any ideas?

Thanks

My BoyFriend just went to jail and is gone for 5 months, what are cute love quotes?

I need Quotes about love and missing him.

Update: May 23, 2013.
i love my boyfriend an im not about to tell him goodbye im gunna wait for him to get out im not gunna go for anyone else or be rude to the man i love, you dont know him like i do hes in jail for AWOLing an missing curfew and some stupid shit that is just kid stuff we are teenagers inlove we both have proven we would do anything for eachother

My ex, who has a new gf of three weeks, slept with me last night. He's torn up, says he loves me?

So we dated basically for 3.5 years and after that, constantly came back to each other after people we were seeing. It doesn't make sense but we have both seen a very deep darkness to each other (I was there when his father died unexpectedly) and he's seen me through to some tough stuff. However we only see each other once every couple of months, since I started grad school far away, and recently he started dating a new girl, saying she's the first girl he's really wanted to be with after me, but he really wants to stay friends and he needs to put his relationship first.

Well, we met up, had a great time talking and I was just cuddling with him at one point because it seemed innocent. I asked him if he still loves me and he said yes. I told him I felt the same. He tells me really likes this new girl, but doesn't think he loves her, he knew with me within the first two weeks (but we were also 18). Anyways we hooked up and the guilt shaming started. He kept saying he felt like a horrible person but he can't say no to me or stop vein attracted to me and his feelings for me just hurt him. He says he still has some hope that me and him would work in the future but it feels like a pipe dream because we tried a lot through our college- on and off.

I know he's not a bad person, and I know many will call him that but I understand him. I don't know what to do. He told me he doesn't want to tell his of about what happened because he doesn't want to lose her, but he also said he wants me in his life. He also told me that his sex life with her isn't that great and she isn't as exciting as me, even in the looks department. There's so much rooted love for each other and everything we've been through, I don't know when it's going to go away. He's done a lot to show me he loves me, and I have no doubt he does.. I tried comforting him but he seemed tormented...

My BoyFriend just went to jail and is gone for 5 months, what are cute love quotes?

i need Quotes about love and about missing him,

If I were you, I would accidently bump up against him and put your number in his hand or shirt.

The guy with the gorgeous smile and great personality, Got me stammering. HELP!

There is this guy that works in a business I frequent and every time we lock eyes he breaks out in a huge ,beautiful smile. His coworkers always move aside and let him wait on me and he always has a great conversation with me. The guy is gorgeous and the attraction is way obvious. I wanna know how do I slip the number into his hand? LOL!I tend to stammer when I see him and he always looks me right in the eye.I can`t take no more.. HELLP!

Update: May 23, 2013.
Thank you for all your responses. So far handing my business card seems appropriate. Yes I know his name :) and I have to get the stammering under control.This guy oozes confidence, a big turn on for me. LOL! I will keep you updated.