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A little Ex Drama help!!

My ex has been in jail for about a yr now and weve been divorced for 5 yrs. My bf has not had to deal with him which my ex never really caused to much drama. My bf proposed to me Friday night, sent me a sweet message about life companion Monday morning. Well I found out my ex got out of jail which means he will be getting in contact with our 2 boys. So I told my bf Monday night. He got bothered and worried a bit that he might cause some drama. So after the engagment and him sending a sweet message I had to go and ask if he was gonna bail on me because of issue with ex. Which has been none yet. He said we are engaged I would hope the ring would asnwer those kinda questions no Im not bailing. So my question did the engagment and his sweet text mean less now because there was a bit of drama including my stupid question about bailing?? He also said its funny how I finaly got you a ring and now he gets outta jail. You thoughts Please???

How often should one visit with their in-laws, assuming they live within 15minutes driving time?

1)How often if you are married with no children?
2)How often if you are married WITH children?

**Also assuming that everyone gets along well and loves each other, however being with them can be mentally draining:/

My boyfriend's mother lives with her husband's brother , husband had committed suicide. Is it right?

I told him I hate the situation and that I suspect things. He slapped me. Mother and uncle act like husband and wife. Nothing is heard of his father in the house. No photos, no memories.His uncle is indifferent but his mother hates me. She knows I suspect things.I love him.He is adorable but his mother wants him to live with them after his marriage. I have decided to go away. Am I right?

2nd Anniversary Gift Ideas?

So my wife's and my second anniversary is coming up next week. I would like to get her a traditional gift which has be related to cotton. I get great advice on here so I was wondering if anyone had ideas? To help out shes 6 mo. pregnant with our first born (We don't know if its a boy or girl), so I would like to get her something that relates to that.

Thanks!

Passive aggressive and ptsd husband

My husband and I got married recently. He is in the military, deployed twice, and from being deployed has ptsd. We love each other very much but he has a few problems that have put great strain on our relationship and marriage. The worse thing he does is compulsive lying, which, as result, has made me feel I cannot trust him. The second issue is that he cannot seem to get over his ex wife (who cheated on him, thus ending their marriage) , he has stashed many pictures of her around the house (all of her nude), keeps multiple digital copies on flash drives that I have found, put them up on the internet so he would never be without them and still keeps up to date with what's going on with her via family member and lastly he gets mad and has yelled at me if she and I have/had a shared interest or hobby. This has made me feel very insecure and I'm lost. I want to save and rebuild the relationship but don't know what to do or how to handle it.

Okay this is a real post I hope y'all will think is fake.

My husband and I love each other. He's an alcoholic. I'm a cheater. We both know this about each other. We both came from good families and paid enough in tuition to say we are well educated. The question we both have is...is this all there is to life? We've had our share of broken hearts, of reaping the rewards of a life well planned, we trust each other completely...judge away but that includes he's honest about being a drunk and I'm honest about cheating....but more than that we trust each others judgement and are confident the other has our best interest in mind as its been proven time and time again. We are fortunate not to worry about money. We are fortunate to have each other. But is this all there is?

How do I get over an ex who I should not have feelings for because I am married?

My husband and I are not getting along and I reconnected online with my ex boyfriend, I met him several times over the past year in another state where he lives while I was there on business. I know this was wrong. I stopped communicating with him, and he has with me. But I am having a difficult time getting over him and forgetting him. He was not particularly nice to me a times, so I am confused as to why I just can't move on. He was my first love, and always had special place in my heart, but I know it is not healthy to continue to have these feelings for him.

Is my husband an alcoholic?

He misses more and more work to stay at home and drink, like today he opened a beer at 9am. My mom called to see if I wanted to grab lunch, being at home with him gets kind of annoying so I said sure. He said if you go I'm going to start drinking shots I said I'm just going to lunch with my mom, what you do is not because of me. I was nervous the whole time at lunch bc I was worried he had driven somewhere and he was still drunk from the night before and had already had two beers this morning. When I got home he had finished off 1/2 of a 1.75 of whiskey. My nerves are just shot as he's been screaming at me since I got home to leave his house, or blasting the music, but then like a bipolar personis like "come look at this funny email I sent" when I don't go look immediately he's like "fine get the fuck out of my house!"

It's so draining. We've been married for 7 years and this has been going on for the last two. I guess I just feel detached from the situation, but it still just shoots my nerves if that makes sence? I'm thinking he might have a drinking problem or something and it's not really my fault evn though he acts like bc I went to my lunch with my mom it's my fault.

We went to counseling, two different ones...and it just seemed to be a waste of money. Literally, we would spend two hours a week and $400 to sit and tell a person what we had done that week. It was like its cool and all to pay to tell a stranger everything about us...but neither would give advice or say what they thought about us...so I'm asking you all to for no payment, but out of the generosity of your heart. Thanks.

My husband is going through a mid life crisis

I'm trying to support him in this, but its wearing me out. Everyday it's something new. He quit his job. Bought a new car. Can't decide if he wants a new wife or not. Thing is I think I'm going through one too and feel pretty much the same way. Has anyone been through anything like this? We basically want to change everything in a panic bc we feel like its our last chance

Out of 10 people, how many do you think were able to marry their first love?