GIVE ADVICE ON MARRIED LIFE

amen.................

Marriage is the process of finding out....

...what kind of man your wife would have preferred.

wisdom.................

If you love someone....

..............fight fair.

smiles................

I love being married.

It's great to find that one special person...

......you want to annoy for the rest of your life.

tomorrow is my WEDDING DAY!! thats weird right??? too many preparations any tips?:)

my husband cheated ( long, convoluted story), and I am worried he is again- advice please!

my husband had been "chatting online" a lot ( hours at a time) with a girl from work I asked him to stop- he said he would, a few days later, told me he "loved me but was not in love with me" and wanted to separate. He stared staying at her house( just friends, he said) sleeping on her couch, but coming to to work during the day( he was her supervisor both in the army). I found out they were having a relationship about w week later. he said he's stop, but still wanted to be separated but see a counselor and work on things, and wouldn't have any contact with her. About a week later, I found him at her house out in the yard ( i walked by with my 3 kids, didn't know it was her house) . He got angry, I got angry- he said they were "just friends". A few days later, found out they were seeing each other again ( mid august- the whole thing only lasted about a month). Told him I wanted a divorce and was going to report him to his boss( the army doesn't like supervisors sleeping with people lower ranking than them). He said he didn't want to see her anymore, and we started seeing a counselor and things seemed to get better, but he deployed in mid October for six months, and I keep worrying that he doesn't really care or that he is emailing/chatting with her again ( I have no reason to think that though) . he has "his" computer downstairs, but it has a password on it, and I don't know what it is, and he is a computer geek and would know if I tried to hack it anyway. This is all driving me crazy! I don't have any real reason to think he's seeing her again, but I can't help worry all the time-and he's thousands of miles away, so I can't really talk to him about it.
Help!

Would you ever consider divorcing your spouse just because they gained weight?

My wife got really fat since marriage.

My wife got really fat since marriage. We have no kids. I don't want to stay with her anymore. What should I do?

A man might cheat once,this is rare but cheat again with the same girl.How do u explain this was it

a mistake or he does it on purpose..

Talk about double standards....whew.....

So I'm getting out of the shower today.....and Mrs. Lab is looking at me and she goes....."Damn your getting fat...."

What would you think would have happened if that would have been reversed....

Me I just said...."yah I know"......"I need to work on that"

I mean when I switched locations at my job....I think I eat more and have put on about 10 pounds in the last month....so I had to agree with her....

Update: November 20, 2009.
If I would have said that.....whew....first off...she would have probably hit me....second she would have put on a pair of unremovable panties... But me....I like it that she's straight foward and tells me the way it is.....in fact I almost said.... Well here's your chance to have sex with a fat man...you can take that off of your fantasy list....but I didn't.....would have lead to the same results as above.... But a person that thinks their mind and tells you the way it is without sugar coating it...I like... So anyone want to go run......

Okay....here's a good one for you.....

Guys what would you do if you thought your wife was pregnant....you have been married 20 years have 3 older kids......

Now here is the kicker.....you have been fixed for the last 10 years......

Update: November 20, 2009.
Okay....this isn't happening....I was just thinking about it last night going to bed...what would I do.....you probably won't believe me but here is what I came up with..... First I would go to the doctor and make sure that I couldn't produce babies....the last thing I would want to do is accuse her and then it turn out to be mine.... So if that came back negative....I'd calmly ask her how it happened.....then I'd go on with my life as normal.... I like kids so that's no biggy...I love her so that's no biggy...now the question would be if she wanted to stay...because she sure will get a ton more grief from family and friends than me... If she does...than so be it...life goes on.....the kid still needs a dad and I think I'm pretty good at that....so I would just regroup and go forward...... I understand mistakes happen....some are bigger than others....some are smaller.....

My wife got really fat since marriage.

My wife got really fat since marriage. We have no kids. I don't want to stay with her anymore. What should I do?