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what does it mean when girl invite you to her place

i met this girl on campus we said hello to each other some number of times. One day we met again and i said ''it being long i have seen her'' and she said ''but i have not be calling' when she did not give me her number so collect her number. When i call one time she requested me visting her at her place.

Why is my sister so over protective?

She's gets really jealous if I start getting close to a new friend or anything and then she starts crying and saying that she feels like we're growing apart and stuff when we're not I just want to spend time with other people sometimes. She has a boyfriend that she is wth pretty much 24-7 so it's not because she is lonely but she doesn't bother with her friends much anymore because she won't make time from them and also I always invite her out clubbing and she usually ends up bringing her boyfriend and she says it's because I always go off with other people but it's because I don't want to be stood there like a third wheel. It's kind of like she is jealous when I make friends but she won't put the effort in to do the same. Also I have a brotherly kind of relationship with her boyfriend I can't of want to get away from that when I'm out with friends. She also makes me feel bad if I don't tell her one little thing but I'm quite a private person and don't talk much about my personal life with people.

Very serious question with a very serious need of help.?

I'm completely at a loss as to what I should/can do.

Right now I'm between jobs and staying with a friend's family. Everything was going really well. About a week ago I started to wonder if my friend's husband had feelings for me, but I decided that it was just my imagination creating a friendship into something more. Today my friend told me that her husband informed her last night that lately he hasn't been feeling the same and he is thinking about leaving her. This was completely unexpected and she is heartbroken.

I can't help but think that my intuition was right and that I have something to do with his change of heart. This upsets me because she is one of my best friends and I would never come between her family like that ever. I'm friendly with him because I live with him but I have never come on to him, or tried to doll up for him or anything.

Part of me says to get the hell out. If I had a place to go I would have gotten out already. I don't have family, and none of my friends have a spare room that I can stay in until my new job starts in August. Because I don't have a paycheck I really can't afford a place of my own.

The other part says stay. I know that my friend will need someone and she really doesn't have a lot of close friends. I also know that she could use the help with her kids. Her kids and I are very close and I know that they will be very upset if they lose a live in friend and a live in dad at the same time. The kids already know that something is up and its really bothering them.

I don't know what is best to do and if I should say anything or not.

What are some of your own personal simple pleasures?

Is this an appropriate gift?

This man I had feelings for (sort of still do) picked up a seashell for me when he was at the beach last week and wrote "4RM (his name)" with a happy face on it and gave it to me on Saturday when he saw me. I haven't heard from him since Saturday; we used to text each other everyday.

As a way of thanking him for the kind gesture, I've ordered a geode off Amazon (it's only $3.99) and plan on giving it to him on Saturday when I see him. The geode is from Mexico which I think adds significance to it since he is Mexican.

He has made it clear he only wants to be friends with me which I accept.

Do you think this gift is over the top and pathetic or will it seem like a sweet gesture? I don't want to appear like I'm trying too hard.

What should I think about this?

Me and my group of friends consist mainly of 5 people. 2 guys and 3 girls. I like one of the guys but I think he likes one of the other girls. we all hang out equally so who he likes isn't based on who he is with the most but he likes one of us and I can't tell who it is until today when it was obvious. But the other girl is my best friend and she knows I like him but it also seems like she is starting to like him.

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"Envy is based on an incomplete understanding of the other person's situation."

     -- George Chapman (c.1559-1634)

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Am I being stubborn or reasonable?

I used to talk with an old friend about politics a lot. Then he said "not everyone has as much time on their hands to stay up with that stuff". The thing is we haven't lived in the same city in nearly 10 years and really don't have a lot in common to talk about and that's something we were both interested in. But given the full spectrum of the conversation it seemed he was saying...you have nothing to do and I do and as if he'd asked a friend how to say that politely. Now he keeps texting me about politics, asking specific questions and I'm not responding. The first one I texted, "I am never talking about politics starting now. He keeps texting about it though. I think he knows he somewhat offended me and feels bad. But I don't want him to feel bad for expressing what he felt, but I'm certainly not going to keep talking to him about something that he doesn't want to and he thinks proves I have nothing to do.

Update: May 16, 2012.
For the record, I invited him over to hang out this last weekend when he was in town, we did hang out and had fun! No mention of politics, only catching up. The politics thing did erk me and he knows it, it's not like we just met...he knows me well including that i can be stubborn. I really don't think i want him to feel bad about it, but I guess I could subconsciously.

Need to translate some male

I was talking to this guy for a while, and we seemed to get along fine. We have some mutual friends and stuff. He is six years older than me, and ultimately we wound up fooling around (no sex!) and he quit talking to me. Seeing as to how we were friends I thought he would handle it better than just stopping talking to me. A couple of weeks later I left to live in another country, and got around to asking him what his deal was. I asked if maybe he was angry, or maybe I just did something to really piss him off. He responded with "no, we cool."

I have no clue what "no, we cool." is supposed to mean! Considering we still don't talk like we used to. I am assuming "we not cool"

What does he mean