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My ex and I broke up on good terms. Bec...
7:47 PM - Saturday August 30, 2003

My ex and I broke up on good terms. Bec...

My ex and I broke up on good terms. Because of a situation. We both know we want each other back.. We are dating other people. I still want him back. We both still have feelings for each other. He have came out bluntly and said i want you back..and nothing has happened..we still flirt with each other and what not. Should I give up ? Should I still try to get him back? Any suggestoins?

- Asked by A Hippie Chick, Female, 18-21, Salt Lake City, Self-Employed

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Keep moving forward and don't dwell on the past to long. You sent signals and if he wants to truly get back, he will respond. Good Luck, I know it's tough for you.

- Response by lightkeeper, A Rebel, Male, 46-55, Charlotte, Other Profession

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Aw, Im Currently In A Situation Simular To Yours But, Were Not Dating Other People. I Think If He Makes You Happy Go For It! But, Make Sure The Reason You Guys Broke Up Is Resoulved, Good Luck (:

- Response by An Alternative Girl, Female, Who Cares?, Who Cares?

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JUst take it a day at a time and be yourself. It will work out or it won't. Good luck.

- Response by schoolmeister, A Guy Critical, Male, 36-45, Teaching

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It sounds like there may be other things that are keeping you both from getting back together. Maybe whatever caused you two to break up hasn't been resolved all the way. He's keeping himself at arm's length. Come right out and ask him what's up.

- Response by roccotool, A Father Figure, Male, 46-55, Detroit

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Thinker99,
The real question is do you want him Back??? Before you answer look hard at why you two broke up. and since he said he wanted you back play it cool and see if he really does. Let him make the moves not you. Flirting is the spice of life I still flirt with my ex wife and I assure you I don't want her back. I would let him make the moves then ask yourself if you really want him back if the answer is yes then take him... Good Luck
Hairy

- Response by hairynva, A Mr. Married Guy, Male, 36-45, Norfolk, Consulting

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I assume the situation that broke you up no longer applies? If so, then someone has to make the first move. Talk to him about how you feel about him and how he feels about you. Set up a new "first date", and get to know each other all over again. Do not try and pick things up right where you left it, because time has passed and that will not work..... instead, ease back into the relationship. I wish you the best of luck in working this out!

- Response by xamp, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 36-45, Philadelphia, Retail

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