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| Sex & Intimacy / 2:10 AM - Wednesday December 15, 2004 |
Honest stories about FIRST masterbationI have recently seen many many ?'s about masterbation....When did you start? how often do you?? Have you ever??? I answered one of these ?'s last night from a woman/girl who was (according to her profile) 18-21. She claimed to have NEVER masterbated before and allegedly wanted some tips on how to go about it. I called her a liar and I stand by that statement. I told her that EVERY SINGLE girl I had ever met had started playing with their clits and or fingering themselves shortly before their first periods or MAYBE they waited until shortly AFTER their first periods, but no matter they had ALL fingered themselves in some way or another. I would like some comments from you women about exactly WHEN you first discovered that your finger (when applied properly) could cause you to feel PLEASURE.
- Asked by A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 46-55, Chicago, Student |
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I was probably about 11-12 when i realized that i could make myself feel good, i used to have this old counted that came up right there and when i was washing my hands the corner would gaze it, and it felt good very good so i took my hand and slid it down my pants and started rubbing it felt so good rubbing around and around and up and down i just couldnt quit, and it felt better and better untill my muscles started grasping and i had what i thought was an orgasm at the time but i later found out in life was just me pleasing myself because my man is the only one who can give me a real life orgasm... And if you never say you have masterbated you are a liar everyone does it or has atleast touched them selves there before. And thats my true and honest story.
- Response by An Alternative Girl, Female, Who Cares?, Los Angeles
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I remember when I was a kid, I asked my mother what was "down there"...she just replied "O nothing, just never touch it"
- Response by burnin12, A Hippie Chick, Female, 18-21, Atlanta, Fitness
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Honestly, it took me a few years to actually get around to realizing just what I could do with my fingers. Around the time I got my first period, when I was about 12 or so, I started to realize that I could rub myself down there with my panties and jeans on and it would feel incredible, it didn't cross my mind right away to actually slip my fingers in until one day when I was about 14 and this guy I knew asked me if I wanted to have phone sex. While he was talking, it was kind of like a natural reflex when my hand slipped down my pants and I realized how much better it was to actually stimulate my clit with my fingers than just rubbing myself through my pants. I knew all about sex even at the age of 12, I guess I just figured it couldn't be considered masturbation if I wasn't actually using my fingers to probe myself! lol but I'm with you, I don't think there's a person out there over the age of 13 or 14 that doesn't get themselves off somehow...be it direct masturbation, or some indirect "rubbing" that happens to feel really good. It's a natural instict to want to figure out what it feels like to play with what you got.
- Response by shadowcat, A Player, Female, 18-21, Artist / Musician / Writer
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Hmm, maybe that's the reason why schools make boys climb rope in gym class at that age, to discover their sexuality. Anyway, It might be possible that some female never masturbated maybe if she was a virgin or just not very sexual, but I agree with you that more than likely a girl who claims she never masturbates is slinging bull chit and can't be trusted. I'm not a woman so I'll spare any first time masturbation stories. I just wanted to comment on your post.
- Response by An Intellectual Guy, Male, 26-28, Columbus
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i actually didnt start till i was 18, i hadnt had sex, touch myself anf didnt get any pleasure at all...didnt know what the hell i was doing, then i did the sex thing....after that my boyfriend was out of town and i was horney and overheard a disscussion about showerheads...so i ventured....ever since that day i take three hour showers and go directly to sleep. i actually learned how to pleasure myself and found out that the theory about women who masterbate, increase there chances of getting orgasms during intercourse is quite true, cuz once your body knows how to do it...everytime gets better..and better and ohhhh good it feeels soo mucch betterrrr...zzzzzzzzzzz zzzzzzz...lol
- Response by A Creative, Female, 22-25, Miami, Other Profession
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You're SO right about the "shortly before their first periods" thing. In fact, the first time I ever inserted my finger (had been rubbing myself already for about a year or so) was the DAY BEFORE I got mine. I was nine years old and even though I knew some of the basics at that point (my mom was VERY candid with the "birds and bees" talk), I though I had somehow CAUSED my period to come that early by what I did. I didn't try inserting my finger again for a few years.
- Response by jujubee1225, A Creative, Female, 29-35, Chicago, Artist / Musician / Writer
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well I do not remember exactly... but i started most likely around 7th grade... I do not think many girls start before their first periods, depending when that may come of course.
- Response by scb08, A Life of the Party, Female, 18-21, Student
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I actually know a lot of girls that are 14-15 and don't even know anything about they're vaginas.. they are homeschooled although so that might be the reason.. I started masterbating at 4 or 5. I started with pillows and stuff then started with my hands. I don't actually remember how I found out about that pleasure. To this day I am still a virgin and I am saving myself for my husband. Trust me girls.. You will regret it if you give your cherry to someone who's not your soul mate. They are precious. Take care of them.. oh and I still masterbate to this day.. :]
- Response by A Thinker, Female, 22-25
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This is my first time on the site so if this is the wrong place to put a story, please forgive me... I belive i first started mastrbaiting when i was about 12 or 13 but I cant say for sure, I had found that it's so much more comfortable to sleep naked and asI roled around on the bed trying to get comfortable my penis rub'ed the sheet and omg the pleasure that surged from there, I was so intreuged by that that I repeated this sevral tiems intell my penis convulsed a few times and it felt unbleaveably amazeing!!!!! I kept doing this for a long time and got the same pleasure resalts intell one night as my penis convulsed and shot out this warm slipery substance, not knowing what this ment I was worried because i had read about how girls vagina's produce natural lube and I had made lube like girls... say what you will but thats what i thought intell i read a book teling me accurately what it is. Sence than I have masterbated almost daily.... I also even bought an aid, I dont think im allowed to say the name or company that made it here so i wont but its just so much better. I intend to save sex for when im married. Thats my honest story.
- Response by tomriddle1, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 29-35, Other Profession
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When i was about 12 i discovered a vibrator in our shower curtain while taking a bath (the curtain had pockets). A green 'i luv my wormie' caterpillar-shaped thing. i figured out it was a vibrator and was curious, so i put it near the nub of my clit. once i got into it my routine in showers was to put it tight in my crotch and squeeze my thighs while it vibrated.
- Response by eli2cute, A Creative, Female, 18-21
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My frist time ever masterbating I was about 14. I didnt really know anything about sex at all. I heard some kids joking about it so I decided that I would try it that night. So after dinner I went up to the shower, I figured that would be the best place. I took off all my cloths and got in. I stared to touch myself trying to get hard. I finallly did, and slowy started to jerk off at first nothing really happend. Then after a while it was starting to feel really good. I didnt last to long I was olny 14 but I did cum and it felt really good.
- Response by A Guy Critical, Male, 26-28, Artist / Musician / Writer
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My frist time ever masterbating I was about 14. I didnt really know anything about sex at all. I heard some kids joking about it so I decided that I would try it that night. So after dinner I went up to the shower, I figured that would be the best place. I took off all my cloths and got in. I stared to touch myself trying to get hard. I finallly did, and slowy started to jerk off at first nothing really happend. Then after a while it was starting to feel really good. I didnt last to long I was olny 14 but I did cum and it felt really good.
- Response by A Guy Critical, Male, 26-28, Artist / Musician / Writer
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The first time that I ever masterbated I was 14. I really didnt know anything about sex. I heard some kids joking about it at school one day and decied I would try it. So that night afetr dinner I went to the shower. I got up there and took off all my clothes. I started to touch myself to try to get hard. I finally did and started to jerk off, at first nothing happened. After a while it stared to feel really good. I didnt last to long tho and then I came it felt really good.
- Response by john1231language51, A Guy Critical, Male, 26-28, Artist / Musician / Writer
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My first masterbation was today at noon. I was watching some porn and tried it my self. Its felt great.
- Response by silverstream51, A Creative, Female, 29-35, Who Cares?
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When i started i was 8 and i wraped my fluffyest pillow around my penis and started to move it up and down but i could not go all the way but it got easier as i went along. And just today i maserbated atleast 7-10 times and im only 14yo
- Response by clumaaaaa, A Rebel, Male, 36-45
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***fluffiest teddybear ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
- Response by clumaaaaa, A Rebel, Male, 36-45
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I was about 4 when I started to masturbate I would take a pillow or Teddy bear and dry hump it till I came Then I found out about my fingers and to this day I still masturbate and get huge pleasure from it
- Response by A Thinker, Female, 26-28, Melbourne
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I am 26 now. When I was about 7 or I could have been 8 years old, an older cousin came to visit. I lived in Missouri and she was from Los Angeles. She stayed a month and we got to know each other very well. She was over 12 but even though there was about 5 + years difference we had fun. One day about two weeks before she had to go back to LA, we made some sandwiches and hiked to the back 200 acres of my parent's farm. They had 650 acres. It was a warm day and we had to go through some woods where the soil was rocky and not fit for farming. We stopped by a stream about noontime. My cousin started stripping off her clothes to jump into the creek. I took off everything but my panties. She chided me and said, "Take everthing off like me." I did and jumped in. It was great. We started splashing each other and wrestling around in the water having a great time. After a bit I felt a hand down by my crotch. One of her fingers went into me. I was startled and just stood there in the water--dumbfounded. My cousin started moving her fingers back and forth. It suddenly felt like something I had never felt before. At age 7 I had no clue. Finally I really felt strange and tingley all over. She stopped and I grabbed her hand and moved it back and forth for her. I didn't want her to stop.
- Response by franbakk, A Sweet Sarah, Female, 26-28, Medical / Dental
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well i started when i was 11 and what happened was this i was taking a shower and the soap fell so i went down and reached it but i sliped and the water was hitting my clit and then i got out the shower and ran to my room and started rubbing my self/
- Response by jpegworld, A Sportif, Female, 18-21, Chicago, Student
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When I was 6 I was vacuming and slipped and the hose stuck on my vaginally and I let it suck and suck and took of my clothes and let it suck some more and then my mom came in
- Response by A Creative, Female, 46-55
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I am now twelve year's old and this happened to me while I was about ten and a half...
- Response by jakegreenishere, A Guy Critical, Male, Who Cares?, San Antonio
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when i first started masterbating i was about 13. i remeber talking to my boyfriend and we were talking about sex and my hand just slid down my pants and i started to rub my clit and then next thing i knew i was fingering myself .... then i got this really tingly feeling and i started to tense up... then i realized my bed was really wet and i didnt know what happened till i asked my older sister.
- Response by 5364love5364, An Alternative Girl, Female, 22-25, Student
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I first started when i was 13, everybody at school was always talking about it (For Some Reason). The only reason i hadn't one it was because i didn't know how to :/
- Response by welford, A Creative, Male, 18-21, London
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I first started when i was 13, everybody at school was always talking about it (For Some Reason). The only reason i hadn't one it was because i didn't know how to :/
- Response by welford, A Creative, Male, 18-21, London
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i was round a friend's house (She was a girl) and she was on her laptop laying on her stomatch so i layed with her and then tickled her back and then beacuase we were alone i started to rub her arse and her legs she was wearing leggings and they were really thin. next she asked me why i was doing that i replied that she has a nice arse and said, have you got a boner? and i said maybe she asked to see it as she was 12 and had never seen one before so i showed her and she asked to touch and i let her and she rubbed, next thing i know she says that she needs the toilet and asks me to go with her so i did and she took off her trousers and nickers and sat on the toilet and asked me to sit on top of her and i did and she began to kiss me and then when she had finished i wiped her bum and we went in her room and got naked she then asked to sit on my dick and she got ontop of me and my dick slid into her little tight bum and then i said why dont you suck on it and she said ok so she sucked away and licked and just before climax she spat on it and them sat on it again once all loobed up with her spit and we watched tv for about 30 mins with her sitting on my dick. Then she got up and said right do whatever you want... So i bent her over her desk in her room and put my penis into her vagina and thruted fast and got it deep in there i was also running her clit and sh yelled out a scream of happyness and told me to lick her so she lye on her back and opened her leg and i stuck my tongue into her pussy and she cryed out again and told me to slap her bum bum because she had been a naughty girl andtold me to slap her bum with my willy so i did and she gigled and she said ok lets finish this and she sarted to toss me off and i started to moan and she put it in her mouth and i cummed in her mouth and all over her face them she got down on all fours and told me to ride her so i got on top of her and rid her around the house and then for the rest of the day she sat on my willy and after her bum was really sore we do this all the time now:)
- Response by welford, A Creative, Male, 18-21, London
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i was round a friend's house (She was a girl) and she was on her laptop laying on her stomatch so i layed with her and then tickled her back and then beacuase we were alone i started to rub her arse and her legs she was wearing leggings and they were really thin. next she asked me why i was doing that i replied that she has a nice arse and said, have you got a boner? and i said maybe she asked to see it as she was 12 and had never seen one before so i showed her and she asked to touch and i let her and she rubbed, next thing i know she says that she needs the toilet and asks me to go with her so i did and she took off her trousers and nickers and sat on the toilet and asked me to sit on top of her and i did and she began to kiss me and then when she had finished i wiped her bum and we went in her room and got naked she then asked to sit on my dick and she got ontop of me and my dick slid into her little tight bum and then i said why dont you suck on it and she said ok so she sucked away and licked and just before climax she spat on it and them sat on it again once all loobed up with her spit and we watched tv for about 30 mins with her sitting on my dick. Then she got up and said right do whatever you want... So i bent her over her desk in her room and put my penis into her vagina and thruted fast and got it deep in there i was also running her clit and sh yelled out a scream of happyness and told me to lick her so she lye on her back and opened her leg and i stuck my tongue into her pussy and she cryed out again and told me to slap her bum bum because she had been a naughty girl andtold me to slap her bum with my willy so i did and she gigled and she said ok lets finish this and she sarted to toss me off and i started to moan and she put it in her mouth and i cummed in her mouth and all over her face them she got down on all fours and told me to ride her so i got on top of her and rid her around the house and then for the rest of the day she sat on my willy and after her bum was really sore we do this all the time now:)
- Response by welford, A Creative, Male, 18-21, London
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The first time I masturbated I was 6 years old. I had a boy neighbor who was a 9 and we decided to go down to the creek in our neighborhood. The creek was actually in my backyard in the woods. We went back there just to swim. While we were swimming he took off his trunks. I looked at him shocked at the fact that he was naked. He asked me to get naked too, so I did. He came over started playing with my small boobs and kissing them. He then started to kiss all the way down my stomach. I felt my vagina getting wet and I had no idea why, but it felt good. He kept kissing me up and down and I felt my vagina start to throb and i put my hand down to it and started rubbing. He then discoered what i was doing when i started to moan. He then took my hand away and started doing it himself. After a couple minutes he started licking my vagina and I started moan louder and louder until I finally orgasmed. I am now 13 years old and I still masturbate. I still know him and he's my boyfriend now. We've taken things farther now and we have regualr sex but we still enjoy when he fingers me and eats me out.
- Response by A Creative, Female, 18-21, Boston
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Here's my story. I was about 10 or 11 and I had just gotten back from my friends house. We had been playing football and I was hot and sweaty and tired. I hopped in a bubble bath just for the heck of it and when I got done I still had bubbles all over me. I let the water drain out of the tub and just turned the shower head on. I was just going to sit there and the the shower head spray me off, but when it sprayed across my nipples it sent a jolt through my body (kinda like what happened when I would squeeze my thighs together at school) I just laid back and let the water run over my chest. Then I thought "I wonder what it would feel like down there?" so I scooted up and let the sprayer run over my clit. My legs were shaking and it felt amazing. I started pulling and twisting my nipples and I came. I screamed and my mum knocked on the door and asked if I was alright, I had to tell her that I fell. I played with the shower head until I found out the advantages of having a boyfriend when I was 14 ;)
- Response by A Player, Female, 22-25, Other Profession
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