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How can I tell if a guy is checking me o...
5:54 PM - Tuesday May 18, 2004

how can I tell if a guy is checking me o...

how can I tell if a guy is checking me out

- Asked by A Creative, Female, 22-25, New York, Medical / Dental

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An old trick a female friend of mine uses. If you're somewhere and what to know what guys are checking you out, give a big yawn. Then, have your friends look around to see what other guys yawned in response.

- Response by ifics, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 22-25, Indianapolis, Student

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His eyes are open.

- Response by damocles, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 36-45, Charlotte

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He's looking in your direction and breathing.

- Response by twosixletters, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 36-45, Seattle, Artist / Musician / Writer

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men have very poor peripheral vision compared with women and can't do things like that very subtly. If you're not sure, he probably isn't otherwise it'll be obvious.

- Response by thegiver, A Life of the Party, Male, 36-45, New Orleans, Executive

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Every guy is checking you out in some way or another. We look at every woman that crosses our path, beautiful and ugly alike. It is only the intensity of the inspection that will differ.

So, your question should be, how can I tell if a guy is checking me out and may be interested in more? If you catch a guy looking at you and he looks away, then you see him looking at you again, he's interested. Shy guys will keep avoiding eye contact, but they're still interested. Confident guys will maintain eye contact the second time and maybe smile. If you smile back, you might get approached. Good luck.

- Response by docjsh, A Guy Critical, Male, 29-35, Tokyo, Teaching

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Wait, I thought all girls were perceptive. If you're good looking in that age range, all hetero guys are always checking you out, especially if you're wearing something tight or showing some skin. There is no sign -- if he's got eyes and you're in his line of vision, he's checking you out. Sometime he'll even turn around to check you out or if you're really hot, he'll just stare for a bit.

- Response by yilun11, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 26-28, Washington, DC, Managerial

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He is. If you think he is, he is. If you don't think he is, he is. If you don't even see him, he is. We are, we do, we must.

- Response by mrbelvidere, A Guy Critical, Male, 18-21, Indianapolis

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Guys are usually pretty obvious about checking women out. You'll see them looking at you repeatedly. They won't always be looking at your face, though....

- Response by billgarrett, A Guy Critical, Male, 29-35, San Jose, Technical

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If you catch him looking at your chest or butt. Or even better yet, have one of your friends watch to see if guys are checking out your chest or butt. Its AMAZING how often guys do this.

- Response by n15dlo1, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 29-35, Las Vegas, Medical / Dental

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well usually if he is staring but when ever you look at him he looks away that is a sure fire way

- Response by hippieguy, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 46-55, New York, Technical

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look into his eyes and see where his eyes is going. IS he lokking right into your eyes? or he his eyes are all over you breasts and butt?

- Response by troublemaker, A Mr. Married Guy, Male, 29-35, Managerial

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Does he have eyes? If yes, then he's checking you out. No really, just try to make eye contact a few times. If he darts away quickly, he was checking you out, and feels like he was just busted.

- Response by cflood78, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 26-28, Columbus

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Usually they look from the corner of their eyes or will act like they are looking at something past you if you catch them! Constantly turning away is a dead giveaway also!

Have a great week!

- Response by kanaka, A Life of the Party, Male, 46-55, Dallas, Executive

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wink at him, if he blushes, he's busted.

- Response by daddiesboi, A Life of the Party, Male, 36-45, St.Louis, Retail

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Sometimes it is as easy as watching them (the first thing people usually check to see is if your wearing an engagement/wedding ring). Are they always close to 1 person (they are taken, but try to get a few peaks at your radiance) or wandering around (scoping the field)? Move around the room, do they try to look/find you? If you are daring, you could wave or go over to say hi. We all can be wimpy preferring to look/gawk without making the first move (usually we all get mentally stuck after “hi…um…you are hot!”). Looks won’t do it alone, watch their reactions. Are they staying in the same group? Are they lively when speaking to women or men? Ask them to dance or do something where both of you can be together to casually talk/get a realistic sense of each other (as opposed to having them just give you a day dreamy gaze).

- Response by giggle2bits, A Guy Critical, Male, 29-35, New York, Technical

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Does he look at you?

- Response by headgames, A Couch Potato, Male, 22-25, Toronto, Transportation

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