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Somebody stop me! I'm feeling the urge to text my ex! AH
Dating / 1:03 PM - Thursday March 07, 2013

Somebody stop me! I'm feeling the urge to text my ex! AH

This is not the way to get him back and I know this! Someone stop me! And if you want tell me tips on how to get him back!

- Asked by Female, 22-25

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- Response by drunkmonk, A Couch Potato, Male, 36-45

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Block his number. This way, you are in control. He can't talk to you and you can't talk to him and its your choice for it to be that way. Give the whole situation some space. BLOCK THE NUMBER.

- Response by aco57, A Thinker, Female, 22-25, Pittsburgh

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It's hard to give you tips on how to get him back when you haven't stated why the two of you broke up to begin with. But maybe you could find a hobby or try getting out more so that you can fill your mind with other things than being idle and *wanting* to text him. Hope this helps!

- Response by Veronica71276, A Creative, Female, 36-45, Who Cares?

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Do you want him back yesterday, today or tomorrow? Prevent second guessing and CALL HIM UP. This "Texting" is all about isolation and is not conducive to getting together. But talking? That is where it really starts. Good Luck

- Response by rekkonball, A Guy Critical, Male, 66 or older, Retired

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How about grow up? thats sounds very childish. No one can stop you from doing something over the computer if you really want to do it.

- Response by gregslove77, An Alternative Girl, Female, 29-35, Who Cares?

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you are the only one that can stop yourself from getting back at him.
no one can do it for you......
to get him back? be patient.

- Response by flwoodpecker, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 36-45, Other Profession

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I highly advise Ben and Jerry's in this moment....Ben and Jerry's and a 3 hour movie. Don't text. In fact have the texting feature on your cell phone turned off and blocked at your server. That helps prevent lapses in judgement.

- Response by joybird, A Creative, Female, Who Cares?, Therapist

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So why did you break up? I would like to know that story before I advice you to speak with him or not. So what's the story?

- Response by womanv, A Career Woman, Female, 36-45, New York, Self-Employed

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I made the mistake of doing the same thing. Although we exchange kind words. I feel like the one chasing him. I miss him, but the humiliation if they don't respond as you want them to is a risk. Try to do something else like your doing now. Don't I regret texting him. Was how I wanted it to come out. He's a Capricorn

- Response by fabulous68, A Life of the Party, Female, 46-55, Sacramento, Home Maker

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There is actually a program called (funnily enough) Text Your Ex back (Michael Fiore). I am in the program now, and the first thing he advises is to go 30 days with no contact whatsoever. Then after the no contact period, there are some suggested texts to send. Google the program if you are interested.

- Response by A Sweet Sarah, Female, 36-45, Who Cares?

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