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What should i man do?
Dating / 11:40 AM - Thursday March 07, 2013

what should i man do?

if a guy likes a girl and textes her everyday and they both tell each other how they feel and they both seem to care for one another should he give it a break to let each other think or something.

- Asked by Male, 26-28

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You both would only do this if you both or one of you arent sure if you should keep this up but it sounds like you two are doing ok.

- Response by pawsbuddy04, A Thinker, Female, 46-55

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I wish this post made sense. It doesn't. Maybe you need to give up the texting if it causes you to be this unclear in written communication.

- Response by joybird, A Creative, Female, Who Cares?, Therapist

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If she is not making an equal effort, she is not interested.

- Response by juandontbeg, A Career Man, Male, 36-45, Self-Employed

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...I'd get some beer and go fishing somewhere.

- Response by nameacarl, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, Who Cares?, Oostende, Self-Employed

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If both sides care for each other and have said so, why would you take a break? What is there to think about?

How about instead of texting her all the time, the guy calls her and asks her out? What happened to being manly? Not sexist, of course, but manly? This guy should stop with all the hand wringing and just do this thing.

- Response by falsehammer, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 29-35, Kansas City, Consulting

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Texting your feelings for each other is a horrible idea. You do that stuff face to face, if at all. This is so strange I don't know what else to say.

- Response by awsum1, A Life of the Party, Male, Who Cares?, Chicago

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this seems to have a bad ending very soon.
if she is like what makes you feel good.

- Response by flwoodpecker, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 36-45, Other Profession

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Throw that silly text machin in the trash. Face to face or voice to voice only.

- Response by buffer, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 56-65, Los Angeles, Retired

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