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How do I say "thanks" to friends who've been driving me around for the past two weeks?
Friendship / 1:56 PM - Wednesday March 06, 2013

How do I say "thanks" to friends who've been driving me around for the past two weeks?

My car has been in the shop for the past two weeks and since then, I've been relying on my friends to get me around. When they found out I was walking, everyone insisted on giving me rides. While I still walk sometimes, it's mostly been friends, coworkers, and boyfriend making sure I get to work, to the gym, even a few errands.

My question is: what's a good, low-key way to repay them? I've offered gas money, but no one will take it. I want to show that I really appreciate everyone's help. I was thinking six-packs! Any other ideas?

- Asked by scaccia, A Creative, Female, 22-25, Who Cares?

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I was going to suggest "six packs" but you've got that one already LOL. ("Great minds..." and all that.) If not a six-pack, maybe a bottle of wine, or a nice house plant. Or treat 'em to lunch. One of my BFFs loves bath/body stuff so I buy her lotions and pretty soaps when she does me a favor. (She "cat-sits" for me when I go out of town for a few days.)





- Response by justpassingthru, A Thinker, Female, 56-65, Financial / Banking

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I'd invite your friends over for a nice home cooked meal. Your coworkers how about picking up the coffee tab for a few days.
Your boyfriend, use your imagination, I'm sure he'd love it

- Response by youngfuddyduddy, A Married Girl, Female, 36-45, New York, Who Cares?

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Invite them over for a dinner. Or bake a big batch of cookies and give each of them a little bag with a thank you.

Honestly- I don't think you need to do anything fancier than that. Just return the favor when they are in need. Afterall- that is what friends are for.

- Response by A Thinker, Female, 36-45

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"Thank you"

- Response by afirecracker, A Thinker, Female, 29-35

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invite them over for a home cooked meal (surprise style)
offer to pay them something for the gas and oil, if they accept.
just TJHANKS FOR HELPING OUT IF THEY WONT ACCEPT ANYTHING ELSE.

- Response by flwoodpecker, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 36-45, Other Profession

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A great big cookout this spring/summer. Nothing says thank you and love like food, family, and friends! If you get them 6-packs, offer to be the DD if needed (no drinking/driving) hahahha

- Response by uasked, A Career Woman, Female, 46-55, Retired

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Coffee Drinkers?

Starbucks Gift Cards, Walmart Gift Cards, etc. Gift cards...

- Response by hnygrl, A Career Woman, Female, 46-55, Managerial

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I would just give them a card letting them know how much you appreciate them and how much you value their friendship. If they refused the gas money, they will most likely feel guilty taking anything else from you.

- Response by nonnahsvd, A Thinker, Female, 26-28, Financial / Banking

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I have a friend who has done the same for me. I am taking her and her husband to dinner.

- Response by frenchkiss49, A Thinker, Female, 56-65, Tampa, Who Cares?

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Get everyone together, if you can, and with those six packs order in Pizza. People could gab, break bread and have fun.

- Response by seajaih, Female, Who Cares?, Who Cares?

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You are a very thoughtful and appreciative friend! Do any of your friends like coffee? You could buy them a coffee. I like your six pack idea for friends who drink. You could buy them lunch. I do not really like to promote smoking but if you have a friend who smokes, you could buy a pack.

- Response by anonymisslady, A Career Woman, Female, 36-45, Medical / Dental

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Beer? You can't be serious. I would total up how much each person has spent on gas driving you wherever they drive you, then I would get each on a gift card to their favorite store, restaurant, salon, whatever. The only time alcohol is appropriate to give as a gift is if you give someone a really nice bottle of wine. Beer doesn't qualify.

- Response by diznykd, A Thinker, Female, 46-55, Lawyer

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