|Dating / 1:05 AM - Wednesday March 06, 2013|
Girlfriend doesn't say 'I love you' often anymore, and the distance bothers her. What should I do?
My girlfriend and I have been dating for 8 months now. We're in a long distance relationship.
- Asked by Male, 18-21
I am trying to keep in mind that you are young and your heart is still very tender...on the other hand, I think you need to see this from an outsider's perspective: She sounds needy, insecure and manipulative to me. Sorry, that is how it reads to me. It's June, as in 3 months from now, not a year or more. "Needs" you? Okay, that is a red flag for me. She likely "needs" counseling is what it is. You are in college, getting an education that will affect your future, and hers if she's in it. You should be concentrating on that, not someone who is manipulating you into feeling bad for her because you cant be there to hold her and make everything alright in her world. A relationship should be two emotionally whole people coming together, not because they need each other but because they want each other.
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