|Sex & Intimacy / 10:51 PM - Sunday December 23, 2012|
Can a man ever change his mind about wanting a relationship with a woman?
There is sex involved and he has said that there is nothing else beyond the sex. That it is a stress reliever between two adults who are obviously attracted to one another sexually. He cares very much for her, and is there for her whenever she needs him, but he has said there is nothing more. Both of them are my friend and they've had this on again off again deal for many years. The circle of friends we have all see that they care for each other alot, and have even told him that they are meant for each other. Yet he balks at it and says no. On one hand I see the two of them as great together and on the other a toxic set. I don't know what else to say to her that I haven't already said to her. Could I be wrong that he won't change his mind? Could he see what everyone else see's?
- Asked by A Thinker, Female, 36-45, Who Cares?
There's no way you're going to change his mind, if he's dead-set against a relationship. Once you accept this piece of advice, you'll spare yourself a lot of pain.