Thank you for your many years of support. We want to share the news with you that after much consideration, will cease operations in its present format on October 15th. We appreciate your meaningful contributions over the years.
Back to Active Questions

Active Questions

Why do men verbal and emotionally hurt me? Does everything happen for a reason?
Dating / 10:57 PM - Tuesday October 16, 2012

Why do men verbal and emotionally hurt me? Does everything happen for a reason?

I woke up this morning and thought to myself, "you know what, I trust that God has something planned for me. He knows what he's doing." I truly believe that

- Asked by Female, Who Cares?

Read more about the Rating System

Why would a good God want you to be hurt? I've seen family members tell themselves that bad things that happened to them were part of some divine plan instead of doing something about it. It didn't work. Don't put up with crap from these guys.

- Response by tabbycat1, An Alternative Girl, Female, 29-35, London, Internet / New Media

Rating Received:

yes everything does happen for a reason and no one seems to know what those reasons are

- Response by sarahot46, A Thinker, Female, 22-25, Who Cares?

Rating Received:

You keep picking the wrong men. Everything does happen for a reason, so you'll learn lessons and not keep picking the wrong kind of man. You have free will about the men you seek out, if they hurt you they are not gifts from God. If you do what you've always done you'll get what you've always gotten. Set your standards higher. Don't try crediting God with your poor judgment of character.

- Response by justryin2help, A Hippie Chick, Female, 36-45

Rating Received:

Don't allow men to hurt you. Yeah, God has a plan for us all but if you keep putting yourself out there for torment, then that's what you're going to get.

- Response by candiedcherry01, A Hippie Chick, Female, 46-55

Rating Received: