Im going through an ugly break up...
We have been together for almost 3 years.
We have had a long distance relationship for about a year.
In the past, I have cheated on her multiple times. By saying I was single to meet other incounters and have kisssed my old ex a couple of times.
My new ex has forgiven me, but hasnt moved from whats happened. And has eaten her up in the inside. Yet we stayed together.
However. A month before the break up.
She has been seeing another guy. The guy knew we were already in a relationship. She told him it was ok with her to do what theyre doing and just started getting into a new relationship with him. She has slept with him several nights, and then would come home to spend time with me as if everything was ok.
And then once we broke up, she had told me everything. We had tried to work it out. I have told her I would marry her and get past this together. But she has pretty much moved on.
I told her she is rebounding. As if we only dated for 2 months, rather then the reality of nearly 3 years of being together.
Lately, she has been thinking.... (from what I read and what her friends told me)
Oh, and we broke up 2 weeks ago...
So please, help me out.
Try not to be too mean...
- Asked by A Creative, Male, 18-21, San Jose