make sure you know how to orgasm on your own first with masturbation.
then make sure when you are with your b/f that you are super, super horny. so horny, you will go insane if you don't have sex with him. before that moment, do not let him put anything inside you. not a finger, not a toy, not his penis. not until you are begging and begging for it in your mind...
then have sex. you should orgasm.
and it should only likely take you a few minutes, maybe 10 at most.
also if you are used to him going very fast, then have him slow down. you can also try to be ontop of him and that way you are in control and you can do the movements that feel the best for you.
also, a lot of women do not have orgasms from sex alone. they get off with him giving them oral sex or using his fingers. you have to find what works best for you. but try what I said above.
you will get there...a lot of young women do not have them right away.
- Response by fondacox
, A Trendsetter, Female, 36-45