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What are you supposed to do with a man's package when you put your hands down his pants?
Sex & Intimacy / 4:58 PM - Saturday February 11, 2012

What are you supposed to do with a man's package when you put your hands down his pants?

I never know what to do with it when i'm fooling around with a guy, help me out??

- Asked by Female, 22-25

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The best thing is soft caresses don't jerk it like a bell chime - the balls won't ding!
Soft touch and explore the length if the shaft and balls just play nice!

- Response by sweetshyfree1, A Thinker, Female, 36-45, Other Profession

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Well just take a good look at my avatar, now close your eyes and picture yourself coming up from behind be wrapping your hands around me and reaching into my shorts,.....\

Then just let your fingers do the walking............

Just caress it lovingly like you would caress anything else lovingly with your hands and fingers...........

But don't dwell on this, a guy isn't interested in endless caressing of his dick with your hands anyways........He's been doing that himself far to long to want a woman to do it for hum!!!

- Response by rafiki910, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, Who Cares?, Boston, Body Work

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Do what comes naturally until me moans in such a way that it makes the hair on the back of your neck stand up. Because if it makes the hair on your neck stand up, trust me it's doing more then that for him.

TA DA !!!!!

I just gave away the secret to all woman kind of how to prove men are different then M&Ms, men CAN melt in your hands ;}

- Response by saman, A Life of the Party, Male, 29-35, Who Cares?

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Pull the package away so as you can get to his willy, and tell him to keep it in his pocket in future.

- Response by rumloverreturns, A Cool Mom, Female, 46-55, Glasgow, Other Profession

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Did someone just say women like the slow drag of a fingernail against our bits?!!? wth lol that sounds painful and uncomfortable as hell!

- Response by A Hippie Chick, Female, 22-25

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Stroke his cock, glide your fingers over it, jerk it, and see if he likes his balls massaged too, many do!

- Response by wende13, A Creative, Female, 36-45, Buffalo, Administrative

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Make sure your hands don't go down the back of his pants.. uh-oh, nothing there, lol.

- Response by rhonda35, A Thinker, Female, 46-55, Who Cares?

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Pull it out and use your mouth. That's what men really like. Ask any of us.

- Response by painter3459, A Creative, Male, 56-65, Self-Employed

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Are you sure you're not 12???

- Response by cougar01, A Thinker, Female, 46-55, Self-Employed

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Well, actually, there is not too much you can do while his penis, his testicles, and your hand is down inside of his pants.

But if you touch his penis gently, sort of like holding a bird in your hand, it should start to grow. Just a gentle caress, and a few squeezes would be nice.

But like a bird, now that it is aroused, what you should do is free it from the pants prison that it is in. Use your other hand to open his belt, pants, and unzip his zipper, and then either slide his pants down (both outer and under) or work his dick out through the opening in his undershorts. The best will be if you slide his pants down.

Then you have this erect eagle out in the open where you can get both hands on it. You want to gently caress it, rub it up and down, squeeze the head, and tell him how much you love it.

Then lean forward and suck it like it is the best thing you have ever seen.

Good luck

- Response by welloone, A Mr. Married Guy, Male, 66 or older, Retired

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Men just want you to acknowledge their package. Just show your guy that you think his package is just fine, thank you very much.

- Response by betterbird, A Creative, Male, 46-55, San Francisco, Administrative

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That is such a great question!

Ask him, he will often tell you what to do. He may want you to touch his balls or pump him or something else - but when you're not hot and heavy, ask him what he really, really likes. He'll appreciate that you care so much and you'll feel SO much more comfortable!

- Response by graziella, A Hippie Chick, Female, 46-55, Philadelphia, Artist / Musician / Writer

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Sing into his mike like you're auditioning for American Idol.

- Response by king313, A Rebel, Male, 29-35, Detroit, Technical

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stroke it

- Response by bigcurt, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 56-65, Pittsburgh, Self-Employed

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you're supposed to tickle him there, silly.

- Response by girlpower08, A Sportif, Female, 36-45

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He wants you to play with his deal.

- Response by frenchkiss49, A Thinker, Female, 66 or older, Tampa, Who Cares?

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Tell him to cough .

- Response by headscratching, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 46-55, Science / Engineering

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If you don't know what to do, the guy should be telling you.

I would!

- Response by chessplayer, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 36-45, Administrative

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The skin tissue you find down there is very similar to your own between-the-legs skin tissue. You like a soft touch, slow soft strokes, the light drag of a fingernail across your bits? So do we.

- Response by stoney07, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 66 or older, Who Cares?

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Shake that thing like you are ringing a dinner bell.

- Response by buffer, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 56-65, Los Angeles, Retired

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