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What happens now....?
Dating / 2:22 PM - Sunday February 05, 2012

what happens now....?

I went this volunteer session last Friday, and met this girl. We partnered up for the session and hit it off. When the session was over, I said "I'm going to grab a bite, would you like to come?" To my surprise, she said yes, so we went to go eat at a local restaurant.

After we finished eating, we walked back to our cars. I gave her a hug, and told her I'd like to see her again... and she said yea, and here's the weird part, she asked for my number first then she called me right there, so now we have each other's number. I thought most girls would just give the guy their number and let us take it from there. Does this mean anything?

Anyways, Now I'm wondering how to proceed from here. I'm not sure if I should just wait till next Friday and hopefully see her again. Text her later to say Hi and for small talk, or call her tomorrow maybe and ask her if she wants to grab a bite in the middle of week. Does the 3 day rule still exist?

Any thoughts/

- Asked by Male, 22-25

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Sounds like the interest is mutual. There are no rules that mean anything!

Absolutely call her, and ask her out. No need to wait until you see her again. That's why she wanted your number...and made sure you had hers! Best Wishes!! :)

- Response by mamom04, A Sweet Sarah, Female, 46-55, Seattle

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No 3 day rule,

Call her and ask her if she is gonna be there next Friday and if she says yes or no, ask to meet with her before then........or what ever you want..........

- Response by rafiki910, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, Who Cares?, Boston, Body Work

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if you're interested, keep in contact... it is what she wants too.

- Response by wakeforester, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 36-45

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if a guy waits three days to call me I assume he is either not interested or a game player and either way I don't have time for that.. that "rule" was decades ago before everyone was attached to a cell phone.. if you like her call her.. as far as the number thing I have done that too.. in this day of crazies I like to get a business card and call the guy at the office.. but as far as giving out my number that was something I RARELY if ever did


- Response by smartblond, A Sweet Sarah, Female, Who Cares?, Charlotte, Self-Employed

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There are no "3 day rule" or other rules. Apparantly she wants communicationn with you or she wouldnt have traded contact. She is probably wondering all the same stuff so call her up. Dont be silly and use texting. Texting is a copout. It shows no effort in relationships. Maybe after your married for 10 years.

Dont smother her, just show her your interested. Keep it simple.

- Response by spongy98, A Guy Critical, Male, 36-45, Consulting

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Call her. I would wait a day or so just not to seem overanxious, but I would call her and ask her out. Don't rely on texting! Nothing wrong with it as a side thing, but you can't build a relationships that way. Good luck.

- Response by A Guy Critical, Male, 46-55, New York, Who Cares?

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There is no 3 day rule. Men made that dumbness up and women hate it. If you are interested, call her the next day if you want to.

Do not text. Call like a real man. Texting is for kids. Or people that don't really want to talk. Real men and women talk on the phone. Tell her that you want to get together Friday night then take her out. Stop fiddling around wasting time. Call her today and see if she is into football!

- Response by msheartbeat, A Trendsetter, Female, 36-45, San Francisco, Self-Employed

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She likes you! So just call her and ask her out already!

- Response by hulagirl55, A Sportif, Female, Who Cares?, Who Cares?

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She set you up so you can ask her out.What are you waiting for? Go for it.

- Response by frenchkiss49, A Thinker, Female, 56-65, Tampa, Who Cares?

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