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I tell my x im moving on and he asks me why and gets sad over it??
Dating / 1:03 PM - Sunday February 05, 2012

I tell my x im moving on and he asks me why and gets sad over it??

Me and my x were talking and i told him i was trying to get over him. As we talked he asked me why was i trying not to love him and get over him and i told him i do really truly love him but i need to do whats best for me and such. But he just sounded kind of down when i said i needed to move on but then happy to know that i still do care about him? So am i hearing things wrong or dose it mean what i think it does?

- Asked by topaz66, A Sweet Sarah, Female, 22-25, Denver, Who Cares?

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I think he now understands that his drinking is not your style and knows you have to move on.It would hurt him to think you don't care.It makes him happy to know you still care as he wouldn't want you hating him.Maybe he still thinks he has a chance also.

- Response by frenchkiss49, A Thinker, Female, 56-65, Tampa, Who Cares?

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I see your posts- everyone gives you great advice!
You keep saying how much you crazy love him



GO AWAY!
COME HERE!


Stop and read that again- this is just an over grown child's game
No this isn't love- it is about winning a game- he is playing you
And if this guy Is an alcoholic or heavy drinker now- it does not get better
Do you like pain?
Do you like the game?
By all means keep on
But no crying
You were warned
Misery loves company



- Response by sweetshyfree1, A Thinker, Female, 36-45, Retail

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Oh my goodness. Get over this guy.

- Response by rslizzle, A Thinker, Female, 22-25, Student

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Oh my goodness. Get over this guy.

- Response by rslizzle, A Thinker, Female, 22-25, Student

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Everyone likes to be liked...but you need to do what you need to, to move forward in your life. Including going "no contact", if what your ex thinks still fills your mind with any sort of *hope*.

Good luck!

- Response by mamom04, A Sweet Sarah, Female, 46-55, Seattle

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Many times, separation even for bitter reasons makes one sad.

- Response by counsellor, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 66 or older, Delhi, Self-Employed

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Yup, it shore does, he is having separation anxiety.....

- Response by rafiki910, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, Who Cares?, Boston, Body Work

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You must be carolcarrs fraternal twin.

- Response by buffer, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 56-65, Los Angeles, Managerial

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Just don't talk to him any more just let him deal what he has to that's troubleing him because the more you talk to him the more his not going to understand you want to move on with your life.

- Response by pawbuddys, A Thinker, Female, 46-55

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Oh please. Its all about his ego. He doesn't care. But why all the drama? Why not just move on without making a big announcement? What you did is akin to someone threatening that they are going to kill themselves. Those that are serious about it MIGHT leave a note but they don't make an announcement in advance.

It doesn't mean anything other than his ego is all pumped up because you were whining about still loving and caring, etc. So he knows that he is still on your mind and still has power over you.

- Response by msheartbeat, A Trendsetter, Female, 36-45, San Francisco, Self-Employed

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