Sex Mistakes Women Make....according to WebMD.....

Sex Mistake #1: Not Initiating Sex With Your Partner

Failing to initiate sex is one of the biggest mistakes women make.

Men want to be pursued by their partners just as much as women do.

Show your interest by taking the first step from time to time. Your partner will likely appreciate it, and you may find a new level of satisfaction in taking responsibility for your sexual experience.

Sex Mistake #2: Worrying About What You Look Like

Thinking about how you look during sex stops you from enjoying yourself and ruins your chances of achieving an orgasm.

Don't think about your belly or your butt....concentrate on the pleasure of the act....you must give yourself permission to have an orgasm.

Men want their partners to abandon themselves in sex play, and that's not likely if she is anxious about her physical concerns.......


Sex Mistake #3: Assuming Sex Is Casual for a Man

For some men, sex is a very important act....don't minimize it....

....research shows that the people who have the best quality and most frequent sex are married couples....

In a study being conducted by university students engaging in one-night stands, the numbers show that men are just as serious about sex and relationships as women. In fact, more than 50% of women and 52% of men who went into a one-night stand, reported that they did so hoping to create a longer relationship.

Never assume that a man is not romantic.....


Sex Mistake #4: Believing He's Always Up for Sex

Everyday pressures can zap a man's libido. This comes as a big surprise to many women, and often his lack of interest in sex is something we take personally.

It comes as such a shock to women when their partner says they aren't in the mood for sex. They know themselves that they are not always interested in sex but they still love the man. But when they discover he doesn't want to have sex, they think, 'he doesn't love me.' Not true. He just doesn't want to have sex.

Sex Mistake #5: Not Giving Him Guidance

Talking very directly about sex, what you like and don't like can make women feel uncomfortable, even with a partner they've been with for a long time and otherwise feel close to.......no man can bring a woman to orgasm if she doesn't take responsibility for her sexual experience......even the best lover can't know what she needs without her letting him know......

Sex Mistake #6: Getting Upset When He Suggests Something New

Just because your man wants to try something new doesn't mean he's unhappy with you or your sex life. Don't take it personally.

....however, don't feel obligated to do something you don't want to do or feel uncomfortable doing.......




Personally, I think #4 and #5 are very accurate...

...there are times when I'm too worn out to want sex.....but if mrs. mamu suggests it, then I feel obligated......which sometimes results in a less than stellar performance on my part......

...it took years to get mrs. mamu to open up and tell me what she likes best or what she needs to satisfy her sexually......letting your partner know what/how/when shouldn't be a problem...in fact, you will find out your partner is usually more than willing to please you and will do what they know you like the best.....