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| Married Life / 11:43 AM - Saturday February 04, 2012 |
I am getting separated from my husband. We owe one car only, he is moving out do you think is a badidea for him to continue dropping me and picking me up from work? should I cut contact with him? I still have to see him since we have a son together but I am not sure if its right. - Asked by Female, 29-35 |
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Why do you wanna separate from him? why always the kids pay the price...if it just can work between you and him for the sake of your kid...and by the way, there is something that i don't understand which is: why would someone ever get married if he/she will divorce later...it's marriage, it deserves other chances and forgiveness...i don't know why you wanna separate, but you better think of your kid before you think about the stupid car!
- Response by tonymetal26, A Creative, Male, 26-28, Law Enforcement
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If you're both amicable enough to car pool with then I'd say it's okay.
- Response by skycop, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 36-45, Consulting
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That's up to you. Are you civil enough to do this? Is there any chance that he could just one day stop or not pick you up leaving you in the lurch? If so, it's time to seek out other means of transportation for yourself so you can be responsible for yourself.
- Response by msadvise, A Thinker, Female, 46-55, Transportation
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Bad idea, get your own car. He might be willing to do this now in hopes that if he is a good boy then maybe you guys will get back together. However, when things turn really sour he might just say screw you and leave without transportation. Besides, if you are wanting to cut the ties then cut all ties except for the kids.
- Response by william45, A Career Man, Male, 46-55, Chicago, Teaching
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Until you have another solution then why not? what else you going to do?
- Response by englishrose4945, A Life of the Party, Female, 66 or older, Miami, Alternative Medicine
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If your plan is to leave him then cut the ties that is still bonding you. This arrangement can be good and bad. It sends mixed signals to the child. It sends mixed to each other for a possible reconnection. It may even interfere with the two of you moving on with your lives without each other. It is really a matter of convenience for whom to get the car out right and for whom to seek another way of transportation.
- Response by lowmy, A Mr. Married Guy, Male, 46-55, Baltimore, Student
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If it works for both of you why not. At least until you get a car.
- Response by frenchkiss49, A Thinker, Female, 56-65, Tampa, Who Cares?
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If you are both in good terms and he agrees I guess it would be ok. Otherwise the car should be sold and share whatever is made.
- Response by candiedcherry69, Female, 36-45, Miami, Who Cares?
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If you're both amicable enough to car pool with then I'd say it's okay.
- Response by skycop, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 36-45, Consulting
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