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Three years of dating, three years of marriage comes to an end today. How to deal with it when
Married Life / 11:30 AM - Saturday February 04, 2012

Three years of dating, three years of marriage comes to an end today. How to deal with it when

you don't have friends nor have a social life. All you have left is wasted time and the need to cry all day and night. Please help :(

- Asked by Female, 29-35

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You pull yourself up out of the funk, and find activities, hobbies, or meet new people.
The marriage ended, not your life.


- Response by kismet331, A Thinker, Female, 36-45

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PM me.

- Response by girldownunder, A Life of the Party, Female, 29-35, Sydney, Medical / Dental

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Too many young women never learn to build fulfilling lives for themselves. They constantly seek validation based on who they're with. They never have hobbies, passions, outside interests. Right from the start I knew there was a difference between young women and ones who've been through a failed marriage and a couple of kids: the older ones find fulfillment and validation within themselves, instead of relying on their lovers and friends.
It's never too late to make important changes. Get yourself out in the real world and interact with passionate people who have real agendas.

- Response by chesterdad, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 56-65, San Francisco

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Myself,i found it helpful to write in a journal when i thought about him and the things that happened.That way,it was off my chest,and i felt a lot better afterwords.

- Response by tudorcat, Female, 46-55, Columbus, Home Maker

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Go to church tomorrow and then watch the Superbowl. Then on Monday, work on a new plan for a new life. Get a notebook today and have it ready to go on Monday. Someone mentioned a journal which is good. If you ever need anyone to talk to, you can PM me and just come to this site cuz there are a lot of nice people here.

- Response by kmf1, A Life of the Party, Female, 46-55, Minneapolis, Who Cares?

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'And This Too Shall Pass'. . . Pretty soon you won't even remember his name. Take a day at a time, and take care of yourself. And talk and talk and talk.

- Response by evviemartini, A Hippie Chick, Female, 46-55, Vancouver

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I lost a relationship a few months ago and the totally lost feeling is getting less now but ti takes time

- Response by bigcurt, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 46-55, Pittsburgh, Self-Employed

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So many single women are swolling there misery and lie to themselves with things like- love is not only about men, love yourself first, join a club, go to church, love is waiting for you.
There is a fact here you need to live with it. Put a straightface and don't talk about what happened. It's ugly when we are a lone and it is more ugly when we pretend that we are happy with it.

- Response by A Thinker, Female, 36-45, Other Profession

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It's not thee end of the world Now is the time to get decent friends and finaly have fun in life.

- Response by frenchkiss49, A Thinker, Female, 56-65, Tampa, Who Cares?

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