Does my male friend like me, even though he knows I'm married?
Alright, so, I'm married and have a baby. My husband cheated on me about.. Say a month and a half ago. My old friend knows about this. We were never close, my friend.
Recently, I've been talking to said friend every once in a while via Skype/Facebook. I've seen him once since.. probably september. Our conversations would usually be 1-2x a week, evenly initiated by either him or I, and generally last for 1-3 hours. I've known this guy for 4 years. We were never close, but I still know him pretty well.
Anyway, last time I saw him, it was at his band mate's birthday party. Everyone was sober. As he left, he gave all of us a hug -- it's what our group of friends just "does". Normal enough, right? Well, he picks me out of everyone else, and gives me a.. pretty loud, actually, kiss on the cheek. Last time I'd checked, he has a huge crush on my best friend, and has never once shown interest in me at all.
Well, right after that, I have to leave as well as my husband had called me, saying baby girl was sick. So I rush out. Friend was walking to his car, and shouted, "LOVE YOU KALLI!" while I ran past. All I really said was "Cool beans!"
Baby ended up being OK.
So, I went to afterparty of said birthday party. I saw cheek-kissing-friend. I was only there for about 20 minutes, but my friend paid a really weird amount of attention to me. And when I left because my husband wanted me home early, I think he got mad at me -- He wouldn't say bye, and he wouldn't hug me. So I gave all of my other friends a hug and went on my merry way.
He hasn't talked to me in 2 days. However, he's been liking my statuses and whatnot on facebook. It's like he's trying to fuck with my mind. I just don't get it. I'm positive he doesn't like me -- and he's a smart guy, he also knows when to give up on stuff like that.
Wtf do I do? Any insight?
- Asked by Female, 22-25