Eighteen to twenty one years old; I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you're the oldest age of 21.
Now, let's cut the sh** and get serious: WHY ARE YOU WITH THIS BOYFRIEND?
The purpose of dating is to find a prospective marriage mate to do everything with, not a convenient "boyfriend" or "girlfriend" at one's every selfish beck and call.
If, then, you are 21 years old and you've been dating this "boyfriend" as a prospective marriage mate for three years, WHY ARE YOU WITH HIM AND HE'S NOT MARRIED YOU YET?
So, boyfriend has not married you after three years of dating you as a statement of his lack of true love for you and faith and belief in your union, yet you don't know how to speak truth and express your disappointment or even anger with him here or speak truth and stand up for your own heart here: "Dear, we've been dating as prospective marriage mates for three years now, and you appear nowhere near interested in that inevitability--and so, I'd like to know what are your intentions with me and for us? Where have you seen us going these three years?"
In this lacking on YOUR part to be as equally true to YOU as he's failed to be with him, have I not put my finger right on the cause of your LACK OF TRUST in him and paranoid fear he's been cheating on you with other girls/women as an explanation for his apparent complacence with your three years of dating-going-nowhere-fa st, as to this cause, you are tearing up the house, so to speak, snooping like Snoop Dogg wanting a Piece of Master gansta style poring through his text messages, voice mails, calls and Internet history looking for evidence to support three years of suspicion?
Well, baby, it's time for you to get Rhythit Gangsta-style and "Drop It Like It's Hot" 2004/2011, which is it! Drop all the truth in your heart out to this "piece" of a "boyfriend" of three years taking you nowhere fast" as to what are his intentions with you, and do it "master"-fully as to get all the truth of his feelings and faith and belief in you as prospective wife out of HIS heart. If then, he does not want, nor has any intention ever of marrying you as a statement he's been complacent with you these three years because he truly doesn't give a sh**, then, you can "Drop Him Like He's Hot" and cease all this hurting of your OWN heart and sensibilities!
- Response by thedaimler2006
, An Alternative Girl, Female, 56-65, Atlanta, Self-Employed