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Why would a virgo man suddenly act distant?
Sex & Intimacy / 3:23 PM - Monday July 11, 2011

Why would a virgo man suddenly act distant?

We slept together after hanging out a week, but did not kiss or have sex. Just literally slept.

Update: July 11, 2011.
I told him I was remaining pure until marriage BEFORE we we had hung out. So he wasn't mad nothing happened because he already knew it wouldn't when we agreed to hang out.

- Asked by A Creative, Female, 22-25

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maybe the fact that you slept togather and nothing happened has something to do with it

- Response by boxer1, A Guy Critical, Male, 46-55, Self-Employed

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Sleeping is boring........

- Response by stanorocks, A Guy Critical, Male, 36-45, Denver, Therapist

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Virgo men are assholes. There are many online groups for people who have dealed with abuse from Virgos. I am not joking, they are the rudest men in the zodiac. Cancers are a close second but as least they like to cuddle, Virgos don't even like touching.

- Response by A Thinker, Female, Who Cares?

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A Virgo man loves the chase...the more distant you keep HIM the more changes you have of having him.
Virgos size up others rapidly, making immediate judgments of their worth.
The moment Virgo feels there is nothing you can do for him, you are openly betrayed and dismissed, no matter how kind, considerate, or faithful you have been.
Hope this helps!

- Response by kismet331, A Thinker, Female, 36-45

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Good for you.
Do not put any credance in Astrological signs.
I would guess that you would have to ask J.R. why he would not break your cherry.

- Response by flwoodpecker, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 36-45, Other Profession

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Many Virgo men can be stand-offish AND aloof. I know that these people are analytical and picky with who they are interested in and when they are interested in someone, they work their way towards you....slowly. They are not aggressive in their pursuits, they are afraid of rejection, however, depending on their moon sign, the degree of being afraid of rejection can vary. If they have a moon in an earth sign, the fear of rejection is greater.

- Response by A Life of the Party, Female, Who Cares?

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You turned him on and then turned him down. You rejected him.

You are lucky if he will even talk with you now. You took yourself off of his list of a possible "GF."

You went away, and now you have to ask why he is "distant"? Hello? Didn't your mother teach you anything?

- Response by greenwind, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 56-65, Construction

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It has nothing to do with the fact that he is a Virgo. You told the man you were remaining pure until marriage. He didn't say I do to anything but sleeping. Rosey

- Response by roseytalks, A Thinker, Female, Who Cares?, Tampa, Who Cares?

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staying a virgin doesn't mean no blow jobs, hand jobs, making out, kissing, petting, mutual masterbation, etc
not meaning to be graphic

but you have a young guy that thinks about sex every 10 seconds and you want him to not want to have sex with you, what were you planning on doing to placate that?

his hormons are running rampant, so you need to figure a different way out there, shoot even anal is still remaining pure

just saying, he is a young buck, they want to rut not wait


- Response by beautifulloser, A Rebel, Male, 36-45, Detroit, Executive

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It matters that he is a virgo why?

- Response by A Trendsetter, Female, Who Cares?

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