|Dating / 6:52 PM - Thursday May 19, 2011|
My boyfriend didn't get me a birthday gift, should I leave or should I stay?
We've been knowing each other for the better part of two years now but dating constantly for the last 8 months. For the past few weeks I've been saying baby lets go on vacation for my birthday, lets do this or that. Then with gas prices being so high I said well lets do something intown even found a really good deal and told him about it. A couple days before my birthday we somehow got into a small convo about bdays and I asked did he even know when mine was, he said of course. To back up up a couple months ago he told me about a girl he knew who was complaining that her guy didnt give her anything for her birthday and how he told her the guy didnt care about her at all if he didnt do something for her birthday. So yesterday he didnt even call until around 4:30pm and then he's like i just called to say happy birthday and that was it. a few minutes later I text him reminding him of that convo(but now i'm furious) he calls back and is like well i'm not good with gifts and i didnt know what to get you, what do you want. I'm like its to late now it feels forced. then he calls me from the mall at 8:50, mall closes at 9, baby they dont have it what else do you want. Still ended up with nothing. Didn't even see him before my birthday was over. Am I wrong to be upset and considering calling it quits. I just don't know what to do. MEN HELP PLEASE?
- Asked by Female, 29-35
Can I answer even if I am not a man? I would be sooooo mad. this would be a breaking up point for me. I would not speak to him until he shows up at my door with flowers, candy and a nice gift card or jewerly...