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Is it true that once a man is sexually aroused he can no longer control himself?
Sex & Intimacy / 11:26 PM - Wednesday May 18, 2011

Is it true that once a man is sexually aroused he can no longer control himself?

I heard once a man gets to the point of "horny" he can no longer control his actions, and this is why a lot of females end up claiming rape? Is this true?

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That's a load of crap. Most men can control themselves, they don't like it, but they can. A few are like that, if you tease them long enough they will screw you for sure..

- Response by oldman52, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 56-65, Sydney, Retired

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No, all men can control themselves. The only ones who don't are rapists.

- Response by ufohunter, A Creative, Female, Who Cares?, Seattle, Military

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First off...Any chick who claims Rape and is NOT should get run over by a Bus.

And Males are totally different before they blow their loads..they need that poison out of there system so they can think straight.

And once they do, blow..they either go to slepp, or get Hungry (I Get Hungry)

- Response by hedo2nj, A Player, Male, 36-45, Other Profession

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No way of course its not true of 'ALL' men.

Sure 'SOME' men cant control themselves and these men can end up being Rapists.

If ive ever been with a girl getting hot and heavy and she has said "stop" then i have instantly stopped,yeah is a bit of a dissapointment because you were so close to scoring lol,but if she sais stop then stop you must and you gotta respect her wishes!

- Response by cheekymatt25, A Career Man, Male, 29-35, London, Body Work

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No, it's not true. If it was, there wouldn't be any man anywhere who was not a rapist. The reality is that there are more men who are *not* rapists than men who are.

- Response by justpassingthru, A Thinker, Female, 56-65, Financial / Banking

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Only if you still believe thie Earth is flat, would you possibly believe that.

- Response by chessplayer, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 36-45, Administrative

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He CAN usually control himself - it just happens to be difficult. And some - not all -of them - can't handle difficult. Those are the ones who use lame excuses. Real men can deal with difficult and *save* themselves for women who are clear and present and just as willing as they are to voluntarily give up control.

- Response by uniquelyme2, A Creative, Female, 46-55, Artist / Musician / Writer

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No> That is the excuse they use for bad behavior.

- Response by frenchkiss49, A Thinker, Female, 66 or older, Tampa, Who Cares?

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No it is not true. With rare exception,men can control themselves.

- Response by size008, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 66 or older, New York, Retired

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That is definitely not true. Have you heard of blue balls? That may be an excuse for a man to say he raped someone but its not true. Most women don't report rape because they are afraid and traumatized so to say that women are "claiming" rape because men cannot control themselves is not a fact at all. There have been several men that have walked out of my house hard and they can just take care of themselves later. I'm sorry that you would ever think something like this, I hope that no man has told you this is a reason that rape is okay. No matter how hard/horny a man is no means no and they can control it ive seen them control it.

- Response by star9903, A Trendsetter, Female, 29-35, San Antonio, Student

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Thats pretty stupid

- Response by boxer1, A Guy Critical, Male, 46-55, Self-Employed

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that is not true he just wants some loving but if ur not interested he will not force it on u.

- Response by A Hippie Chick, Female, 22-25, New York, Who Cares?

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