|Dating / 10:01 PM - Friday April 15, 2011|
Why does he keep coming back?????????
I was madly in love with my ex and still love him very dearly however he broke it off with me in Jan 2010 because I was behaving insecurely and was taking all my stress out on him. Since then he has made contact with me sporadically only to disappear for months at a time. Sometimes there was intimacy involved and other times not. I moved out of state right after the break and he actually flew down to see me in Jan 2011. After one night of being here, he ended up having a meltdown, freaked out and flew back home the very next day. It was a very traumatizing situation. He called a few days later and told me that he ran away because it dawned on him that he had come here and let all his walls down without even realizing it, and it scared him because he still does not trust me 100%. He told me that he loved me and felt a huge void without me. Needless to say this broke my heart. I tried to get him to start communicating back with me but he wouldn't answer me after that, so slowly I've started the process of trying to move on...again. Fast forward to today and he sends me a text message saying that he just wanted to say hi and that he hopes I'm doing well....I swear I just don't get it. Why does he keep popping up? What should I do. What does he want? I'm still in love with him but I don't want to be taken for a ride.
- Asked by A Cool Mom, Female, 29-35, Political / Government
He keeps coming back so that you won't move on.