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Why do some men pursue married women?
Married Life / 11:09 AM - Tuesday April 05, 2011

Why do some men pursue married women?

I've heard discussions on why women pursue married men, but no explanations on men pursuing married women which I think might even be more common. Any thoughts on why?

- Asked by Female, 29-35

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Many reasons: the challenge as they are taken, usually no complications if she is only looking for a casual relationship, forbidden fruit

- Response by hulagirl55, A Sportif, Female, Who Cares?, Who Cares?

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The reasons are the same...because there will be no ties and because the person is selfish.

- Response by phenomenal1woman, A Thinker, Female, 46-55, Chicago

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Ego. They want the ultimate chase and should they succeed in bedding her, then the next ego boost is to see whether or not she wants to leave her husband for you. It's all ego. If it was all sex, they could find any single lady. If it was for intimacy then obviously they wouldn't pick a married lady.

- Response by sweetmama247, A Sweet Sarah, Female, 29-35, Buffalo, Home Maker

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some guys pursue married women because they know that the married woman may want to bang you but not leave her good thing. she has a nice home, money, doesnt work....she may bang the pool boy but she isnt leaving all the stuff behind for sex.

- Response by painless63, A Mr. Married Guy, Male, 46-55

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I would guess that they just want the sex and some company. Then, they can send her back to her husband, who does the dirty work of paying the bills and keeping up the house.

- Response by awsum1, A Life of the Party, Male, Who Cares?, Chicago

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honestly to tell you the truth they do that to my mother. and i still try to figure that out myself. :S

- Response by romolus, An Engaged Guy, Male, 22-25, Dallas, Hospitality

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they're safe!

- Response by imissit, A Sweet Sarah, Female, 66 or older, Who Cares?

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