|Sex & Intimacy / 10:54 PM - Saturday March 12, 2011|
What does a woman mean when she says "You don't UNDERSTAND!"?
I've concluded that she wants me to FEEL what she feels.
- Asked by chesterdad, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 56-65, San Francisco
NO, it means she wants the man to get his head out of his ass for a few minutes and LISTEN to her, listen to words, cues, body language. You don't need to be a therapist. Just LISTEN. If some men would stop playing the 'women are always yackity yak selfish and self absorbed victims' line, all the while they puff out their chest and claim superiority, then maybe they could use that wasted energy to really get to know the very women who are pushing them away. We are not some super human creature, we just want more than to be told that we are overly emotional, clingy and desperate, just because we want to converse more than a "get me a beer" in 24 hours.