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For the women ... what does a man getting an erection mean to you?
Sex & Intimacy / 1:21 PM - Thursday March 10, 2011

For the women ... what does a man getting an erection mean to you?

Say you are with a guy, be it a friend, b/f, husband??? (please specify in your answer)

... and you somehow notice he has an erection.

What do you interpret his getting an erection to mean?

- Asked by andrewj5267, A Guy Critical, Male, 36-45, Miami, Teaching

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Husband, if he gets an erection out of the blue when I haven't done anything to provoke it I interpret it to mean, either he's horny, he's thinking about something naughty, maybe I bent over in front of him, maybe there's a breeze in the house...

Whatever the reason, it usually means I'm gonna get laid =P

- Response by sweetnovember, A Thinker, Female, 36-45, Executive

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If it's my husband, it usually means he just woke up, he's getting tired or he likes the outfit I'm wearing. If it's a friend, it makes me feel good that I still 'have it' or 'some of it' anyways, LOL, but pretend I don't notice so he isn't uncomfortable. If it's a stranger, I'm outta there! LOL

- Response by rexy67, A Sweet Sarah, Female, 46-55, Who Cares?

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If it's a single male friend or my s/o I'd rather not try to would be much more amusing to straight up ask what's got him at attention. With a friend I'd look around and if I saw a sexy chick I'd say something like "yeah man, she's doin it for me too". If it was my s/o I'd probably smack my own ass or something and say "oh you want some of this, huh?"

- Response by surrealoptimism, A Creative, Female, 29-35

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i would think that he was thinking i'm sexy and he's horny!

- Response by imissit, A Sweet Sarah, Female, 66 or older, Who Cares?

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Nothing as far as from his perspective, I heard you all get randoms pretty regularly... so I assume that's all it is and don't think much of it. From my perspective it tends to make me wet when I see or feel one, just a physical response I can't control.

- Response by kalicalendar16, A Hippie Chick, Female, 29-35

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Same thing it means when he reaches for a fork to eat.

- Response by clueless37, An Alternative Girl, Female, 46-55, Celebrity

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If a guy gets an erection around me, I take it as a sincere compliment.

- Response by A Player, Female, 26-28, Who Cares?

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if hes getting an erection chances are good its going to be going inside me one way or another..;P

- Response by eagerbeaver, An Alternative Girl, Female, 29-35, Who Cares?

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That he's horny

- Response by hulagirl55, A Sportif, Female, Who Cares?, Who Cares?

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I would think that if any man I was around had an erection, that I turned him on, or that he was turned on by something going on in the room.

I would hope that if he was my man that it was me that turned him on and we were going to do something about it.
nothing much sexier than when you are making out with a guy and you feel his hard on pressed up against you...sweet lord!!

- Response by fondacox, A Trendsetter, Female, 36-45

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It probally he is horny and thinking something naughty bad or sexy bout u

- Response by A Cool Mom, Female, 26-28, Who Cares?

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IDK but womynlover has me stif right now. LOL

- Response by newnumbersguy32, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 36-45, Financial / Banking

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