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Signs a male coworker likes you?? or has a crush ?
Career / 1:27 AM - Tuesday March 08, 2011

signs a male coworker likes you?? or has a crush ?

what are the signs that a male coworker has a crush on you? (and before anyone says not to date a coworker..i'm not i'm leaving in a month to a new job that is in my field) but i had a crush on this guy at work forever but have kept it to myself..so what are the signs a guy coworker gives off when he likes you at work??

- Asked by A Thinker, Female, 29-35, Other Profession

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Well... For YOU, and for me... there are very different signs.

For you, he may wink and gravitate to be near you, all that...

which may be similar if he liked ME, but... he'd be beaten-up.

- Response by fehkarfight, A Couch Potato, Male, 46-55, Who Cares?

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I really don't care just WHO you are.
That's a funny answer by Fehkarfight!



- Response by A Life of the Party, Male, 46-55, Artist / Musician / Writer

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Eye contact, mirrored body language, and flirtation.

At the end of the day, you might as well get to know them keeping it low key, then see how things go. As you get to know him asking if he has someone will become easier. You may not even have to ask.

Enjoy getting to know him because you obviously like his style.

- Response by bluegenel, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, Who Cares?, Technical

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touchy feel type actions. crotch rubbing and such. He'll grab at you. Pinch you. Maybe even slap your buttocks around a bit to show some physical attraction towards you.

- Response by diglebe2, A Guy Critical, Male, 36-45, Self-Employed

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Just what do you plan to do with this information, then? It's already clear you have no intention of (gasp!) APPROACHING him.

The dating gurus get this same exact question a thousand times a month from the guys, "How do I know if this girl is interested in me?"

Here's the answer: IT DOESN'T FRIKKING MATTER if s/he is interested in you! Your JOB is to run some game on the person and MAKE him/her become interested in you.

- Response by chesterdad, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 56-65, San Francisco

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Is this a serious question? He will ask you out .... for lunch or something small, to get a sense of what's going on. If he hasn't, stop dwelling on him, and focus on the guys who ARE interested in asking you out.

- Response by tinkrbl40, A Thinker, Female, 36-45

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All men are different. There are obvious clues. It may seem that you could be taking a huge risk. However, here goes:

1. He stares at you a whole lot.(been there)
2. He watches who you talk to mainly men,and how long.
3. He tries to be near you in any fashion possible. Tries
not to be obvious.
4. Checks your schedule.
5. LISTENS TO EVERY WORD YOU SAY (EVEN WHEN YOUR'RE NOT TALKING
TO HIM.)
6. Accidentally bumps into you. (This is to get a feel of what you feel like.)
7. Watching what you like to eat.
8. Watching your lips.
9. Being aware of your world.Paying attention to see if you are in a good mood or not.
10.Doesn't like it if you're having too much fun from him. Men
are notoriously jealous if they think another man is making you laugh. They love women that have a sense of humor.They hate
it when it's not them that's making you laugh. Go figure.

- Response by dunchuss, A Thinker, Female, 46-55, Artist / Musician / Writer

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