Guys, would you be bothered if your girlfriend said something?
My boyfriend often receives "Likes" and comments on his facebook from his ex. I usually try to ignore them, but have told him at times that its a little annoying. But mostly, I would either joke about it or not say anything at all.
However, today, while looking for stamps in the desk of our home, I found a christmas card from his ex. In it, she signed Love and then a PS....I hope my christmas present keeps you warm ;)
So....his ex...sent him a Christmas present. They have been broken up for 3 years and she lives in Germany. That is the exact reason why I SHOULDN'T be worried, but its just so inappropriate. I am not mad at him. I told him I wanted to send her a message simply letting her know that I don't appreciate her sending my boyfriend gifts and that I find it to be inappropriate. I even promised no name calling or cursing. I just want to let her know how I feel about the situation.
He then tells me that he would prefer that I not say anything bc then she will write him bitching about what I said.
So guys...would you be bothered if your girl wrote your ex and told her to back off? My bf doesn't think it's a big deal...but it is to me...
- Asked by aujielee
, An Alternative Girl, Female, 29-35, Teaching