|Dating / 9:27 PM - Wednesday February 23, 2011|
Trust issues affecting new relationship.
I'm dating this amazing guy. We've been together for over a month and everything is perfect. We established after week 1 that we wanted to be exclusive and monogamous. He's expressed to me often that he has really deep feelings for me, that he doesn't want to be with anyone else, and that he's very serious about us. The problem is me. I really, really like him but I've been cheated on a lot in the past so naturally I have some trust issues. Plus, he's a musician so he goes on tour a lot--is on one now for a little while longer--and I can't help but get paranoid about him being around other girls. I honestly don't think he would cheat on me--our sex life is amazing and I know he really cares about me, but I can't help but be nervous about it because of my past.
- Asked by Female, 29-35
I wouldn't bring it up.Don't make him pay for something some one else did.Loose the feeling as you trust him.The best lasting relationships are when both go into it with a clean slate.If you say how you feel it indicates little trust.