|Friendship / 10:13 PM - Friday January 28, 2011|
Taken advantage of and disrespected once again - why do I even bother?
I always get taken advantage of but continue to be a nice and giving person. I'm beginning to wonder why. The latest incident is me helping my friend's sister (she's 45) out by letting her stay at my place for a week. I've met the sister and know her problems and told my friend straight up that I wouldn't put up with anything. On her 2nd night there, she was acting weird, asking me when I was going to bed, what street I lived off and when I started to work on my computer, she insisted that I relax and go to bed. I did, but heard her come and go a couple of times around 11:30pm. At midnight, she came in the front door and my dogs went crazy - really crazy. I got up to discover her trying to sneak a guy in my house - upstairs to my daughter's bedroom (which she was using, as my daughter is at her dad's). I get VERY upset, told her she was disrespectful and she said she didn't think I would mind. I told her to go stay at this guy's house for the night and we'd talk tomorrow about the rest of her stay at my house. She then informed me that this guy lives with his girlfriend and she had nowhere to go.
- Asked by pjay007, A Hippie Chick, Female, 46-55, Miami, Who Cares?
I would, it is obvious it was her. She has no respect and it sounds like nothing is going right for her in her life and she is on a downward spiral. This might be the wake up call she needs.
I'm sorry hon. You gave fair warning, and she blew it. But, if you let a coyote into your home, don't expect it to behave like a lamb.
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