|Sex & Intimacy / 11:49 AM - Tuesday January 04, 2011|
Why does my ex still want to have sex with me?
I dated this guy back in my freshman year off high school and on and off until my junior year. He was a total douchebag. He would go days without calling me sometimes weeks only for me to find out later that he was with someone else. I finally broke things off with him in my junior year finally I woke up to his behavior. Over a period of time I learned to forgive him and became friends with him again on IM when i was about 19. Since than we became friends via instant messenger and that stopped for a period of time but than we always end up back in touch. He and I have never stopped having sex though in between our own break ups. I've also noticed a change in his behavior in terms of his maturity and taking things seriously by holding down a full time job for a couple of years now living on his own his mother no longer supporting him. But it seems that he tries to perfect him self more towards the guy I dated for the longest period of time and to whom i once expressed to him why I liked the guy so much. My ex tells me almost every chance he gets how he regrets ever doing me wrong and how he treated me now that he's experienced the pain I went through. My question is why has he and still does he want to have sex with me.?Please explain his actions overall
- Asked by A Creative, Female, 26-28, Administrative
Because you allow this to happen....you are his safety net....the "sure thing" he always has had to fall back on. You are enabling him to be this way.
Sex is its own reason. Sex is a basic biological desire. Sex does not need, and usually does not have any other reason.