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Women who left the Porn-Industry, why do they complain.
Sex & Intimacy / 2:32 AM - Friday November 19, 2010

Women who left the Porn-Industry, why do they complain.

I listen to women on talk shows like the Tyra-Bank show, women who use to be in the porn industry, it really surprises me when i hear these women critisise the industry and try to discourage other women from doing it, but arnt these the same women who,
[1] Screw multiple partners on screen.
[2] they take dick in every hole possible.
[3] they give blow-jobs and get their faces shower with cumm.
[4] they make 450.000.00 a year.
[5] they seem to enjoy what they do.
so why are they critiseing the industry?

- Asked by steady4rhyne, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 56-65, Self-Employed

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Being demeaned and used as a sperm receptable is horrid. Porn should be illegal, and they DO NOT enjoy it, they are ACTING. I don't know if some men are blind, but they are in pain most of the time and are literally dead inside for being used so horribly. Also if you think they make 450,000 a year you are on some serious crack, maybe the very top porn stars that are well known, but most of them are paid very poorly. It is virutally the same as prostitution, the only difference is that a camera is there.

- Response by A Thinker, Female, Who Cares?

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Why not? They got their money. Same as politicians, they promise the world and make excuses when they can't deliver. Sorry to say the world thrives on Bullshit. Have a great night/day

- Response by oldman52, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 56-65, Sydney, Retired

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The same reason politicians get tired and leave: no privacy.

Or a banker: numbers.

Gyno doctor: you seen one crotch you've seen them all....



Just because you think it is a glorious job, does not mean it always is. You only hear about the positives, because if everyone knew the negatives, no one would ever want to go into it.

Perhaps they got tired of being used as objects, and I would also guess that many are wanting to be actresses, and porn is not exactly what I call academy award winning performances with the same cheesy plot every time.

Haven't you heard about women being raped, or being given bit parts if she does not sleep with the producer/director/write r/company exec??

Every job has it's downsides. In porn women are portrayed as objects for men to do with as they please. You only have to read 1, 2, 3, 5 that you wrote above. YOU ASSUME they enjoy it. You ASSUME they like getting multiple partners, take dicks in every hole, get sprayed with jizz, and that they also enjoy giving BJ. Those are all YOUR ASSUMPTIONS.

Women have little if any thing to say about it. And you're shock in that any woman would leave such a job is no surprise. You see it as the ultimate wonderful job. Typical male thought pattern. Sex and money, what could be better?? PORN is not real, it is not real sex. It is a job, just like the gyno who sees crotches every day. They all look the same every day. Nothing great. They no longer have any specialness once you have seen 30 a day. It's only a body part. A gyno I worked with as a nurse said after awhile, they (crotches) all seem the same. He said he no longer saw it as a sexy part of a woman. He said he felt more like a mechanic, fixing what was wrong and they all were slightly different, but pretty much the same. He now is an instructor at a medical training hospital. He got tired of it.


PS-the money is moot. A million dollars means nothing if you despise and hate what you do. Not everyone is about money. I know a few doctors who gave up half a million dollar careers as surgeons to go work in underprivileged countries in Doctors Without Borders. They were tired of the politics, not having say in their work, and the money meant nothing, because they were hating being a plaything for the hospital to control. These docs now sleep on cots, eat off of tin plates, wear the same clothes several days in a row.....

It's no wonder you are single at your age. No one would want someone who thinks that men rule the world, women are for men's pleasure and they have no other value. You assume that being a female porn star is the greatest job in the world....how sad.

- Response by A Thinker, Female, 36-45

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I have a few friends in the porn industry. Their take on it, is different than those of Tyra's guest. Mostly because the producers of her show chose people who would allow the female audience to bounce their own inadequacies upon a very lucrative industry. And I feel most women fool themselves into believing that they would never have sex for money...meanwhile demanding the largest engagement ring, or complaining about living in a house smaller than their closest girl friends.

I'm not being cynical about women as a whole...they know what the truth is but refuse to admit it to themselves. My friends in the industry are so bluntly honest with people, so intelligent in their business mindset and so driven in other endeavors...most of the public stink of jealousy when they talk about porn actresses relegating them to abused, psychological miscreants with substance abuse issues. Meanwhile the average suburban housewife is keeping her libido alive with meth and Lysol.

- Response by zerotohero2, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 36-45, Los Angeles, Who Cares?

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Theycomplain to hide thier own indecressions.

- Response by frenchkiss49, A Thinker, Female, 56-65, Tampa, Who Cares?

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