|Sex & Intimacy / 10:29 AM - Monday November 01, 2010|
Found out my husband is crossdressing and put an ad on Craigslist trying to meet men. Is he gay?
I've busted him before trying to meet women on collarme.com, but this a first! It seems he couldn't meet any women that wanted to dress in BDSM outfits and wear thigh highs for him, so now he wants to wear them and meet men as a crossdresser and perform sex acts on them. Our sex life definitely went down the tubes when I caught him on collarme last year, and I'm sure that's his excuse for all of this. I know they say men who crossdress aren't necessarily gay, but how can that be? He wants to perform sex acts on men. How many men out there do this but yet have wives and kids and otherwise "normal" lives? He's 100% man's man, redneck, etc. I imagine that he would just die if any of his friends knew about any of this. I don't think he cares if I catch him, he just denies everything and tries to tell me I'm crazy. But what if his guy friends found out? I am embarrased for him and I don't even know what to say. I don't even want to tell him that I know but I don't want him bringing home some freakin' disease!! what do I do? what would you do?
- Asked by A Hippie Chick, Female, 36-45, Self-Employed
Im Curious, What possessed you to go on that website in the first place? Were you snooping? What?
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Well why won't you do his fantasies with him? Would that be so horrible?