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What are some signs that a guy is deeply in love with a girl?
Dating / 7:01 PM - Saturday October 23, 2010

What are some signs that a guy is deeply in love with a girl?

What are 5 or 10 signs that a guy has very strong feelings for a girl and really cares about her?

- Asked by Female, 22-25

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He calls, messages, texts, not so much that it's border line creeper.
He does little things for her.
He tries to make her smile.
Compliments her often.
Offers to help her, when she's stressed.
TELLS HER HE LOVES HER.


I don't know what a guy does, I'm just guessing.

- Response by fortminor123, An Alternative Girl, Female, 22-25

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When you dread getting his phone calls/text messages; when you feel smothered when he's near; when you cringe from his touch and recoil from his gifts; when you wish that you could wish him out of your life... He must care quite a lot about you.

- Response by chesterdad, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 56-65, San Francisco

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When they can't wait until they see you once again.....

When that person chooses you from all the others....

When that person wishes to place their hand over yours....and never wants to let you go....

When that person tells you every day, that they love you with all their heart....

When he calls you just out of the blue, just to hear your voice...



- Response by richard77, A Jock, Male, Who Cares?, Self-Employed

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1. He maintains consistent contact with her.
2. He listens to her
3. He works to please her in big ways and little ways
4. he includes her in his future plans
5. He includes her in many facets of his life
6. He cultivates mutual interests/friendships/p assions
7. He thinks of her when they are apart and might bring her gifts when he's been away
8. Her welfare and happiness are more important than his own, or at least AS important
9. He is honest with her
10. He is a mirror for her that only reflects back beauty, grace and love.

- Response by A Sweet Sarah, Female, 56-65, Who Cares?

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There are no set answers but I think all the girls who answered are wrong in general. They are describing movie love.

I love this girl so much that when I think about her I actually tear up a little. Just the thought of her brings this big wave of emotion to me that I can't even describe it. When she's around I tell her that I would do anything for her and that I'm happy when I'm with her. When she's not around I think about her all the time.

How could you tell how deep my love is? You can't. I can say it over and over again but any other guy who's sly enough could be doing the same thing. All you can really do is follow your gut instinct and take that leap of faith. If the love is real then time will tell you the truth that you seek. Signs won't give you any answers.

- Response by A Creative, Male, 29-35, Vancouver, Technical

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