|Friendship / 2:38 AM - Saturday October 16, 2010|
My friend didn't invite my kids to her kids party. Should I be upset.?
My friend said she invited the whole class and that was too many kids to invite mine,she said she would invite them to a second party for friends and family at home. Our kids birthdays are 4 days apart and we always plan to have them on different days so that we can both attend but I guess this year she isn't inviting to the main party. Am I over reacting. May I also add is that one of our friends was invited.I feel really upset since I always try to accommodate her in everyway.
- Asked by y0477, A Thinker, Female, 36-45, Toronto
You say that she is going to have a party for friends and family I think that is actually the bigger party.
Instead of getting mad, you've learned something about this friend. It's time to stop always trying to accommodate her in every way. Other than that, I'd take the high road & let her kids come to my planned party. I don't think the children should have to be punished for their mother's poor form. It was rather tacky for her to invite your other friend & her kids(I assume) without you knowing you are aware of it. Second party for friends & family makes it a little better but don't think the offense warrants ending the friendship. Might just be time to cool it down a bit & not take her friendship so seriously anymore.