This is a sad story IF it is true...I mean, if you are still truly sterile. I would suggest you talk to a doctor who will ask for a semen sample for testing. Then you will know. Until you find out for SURE do not go jumping the gun.
Back in the sixties I was madly in love with a man who told me he couldn't have chidren. I was too dumb then to ask for any proof. He also told me he loved me and if by any small chance anything happened (like a pregnancy) we would be married.
He was planning on joining the peace corps and then he would come back and we would get married then. Bingo. A few months later by both our surprise I ended up pregnant. We got a marriage licence but 24 hours prior to a small wedding we had set up, he chickened out.
He stayed around until his son was born then changed his mind but weeks later he changed it again and was leaving the country. He tried to threaten me to give up our child for adoption. For two years he was gone. He came back to our area with...suprise, surprise...a pregnant Philopine wife!! We went to court over this and I proved by DNA, blood work, hospital records, sworn testimony, etc. that he was indeed the father of this son.
I knew he was, there never was a doubt even though he orginally thought he could not have kids!! Duh. How could he have thought this still to be true when his new bridge was also pregnant!! So there are always twi sides to the story. The man and our son met finally when he was 22 years old and have a continuing relationship.
- Response by englishrose4945
, A Life of the Party, Female, 66 or older, Miami, Alternative Medicine