|Dating / 8:33 PM - Wednesday September 29, 2010|
How do I tell my boyfriend I want to come on his family vacation without inviting myself?
My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months are in a long distance relationship. We see each other every 3 weeks usually. A few weeks ago I asked him if he wanted to go away somewhere with me over the christmas break. He said he would love to but that he usually spends that time with his family, so he'd have to ask them....but that I could come on their vacation if I wanted to. I said that I didn't think it was fair of me to leave my family over the holidays to be with his family. So I said no.
- Asked by A Thinker, Female, 29-35, Calgary, Student
You just say, "Hey...remember when I said I didn't want to go? I changed my mind."
If you want to go with him, tell him what your family said. You've already said no. Don't expect a 2nd invite unprovoked.