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The difference between men and women after a breakup - do you agree?
Dating / 9:37 PM - Thursday September 09, 2010

The difference between men and women after a breakup - do you agree?

I may've figured out why men fare better immediately after a breakup. Men are attracted to many and want most or all of those they are attracted to whereas women are attracted to many, but that doesn't mean they want them. Agree?

- Asked by Female, 36-45

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75% of suicides are male, and the leading cause of male suicide is divorce.
As men get older, we find it increasingly difficult to find attractive potential partners, even as we lower our own expectations.

- Response by chesterdad, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 66 or older, San Francisco

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- Response by number22, A Life of the Party, Female, 26-28, Detroit, Self-Employed

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HUGE disagree. Men are less apt to wallow and sob about a breakup situation they can't change. TBH, a lot of ladies would do well to learn from that. :)

- Response by lizarella, An Alternative Girl, Female, 26-28

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I know that most men have many women period.
And when they break up with one, they go straight to two,three,four,five,etc ;
So they can take a break up much better.

- Response by kismet331, A Thinker, Female, 36-45

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You might be right.

- Response by monana, A Sweet Sarah, Female, 56-65, Who Cares?

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It makes sense but people are individuals so there is a exception always! ;.]

- Response by cjs1991, A Creative, Female, 46-55, Teaching

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From personal experience, I'd have to disgree with you...and agree with chesterdad.

- Response by drumboi2, A Guy Critical, Male, 56-65

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And some women feel the same about the suicide thing...

- Response by A Thinker, Female, 36-45

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it depends upon the kind of relation they share...coping with a breakup from a serious relationship is very hard for both..a lot of investment over the time and then the sore takes plenty of time to fully recover...but if it's not that serious then both of them can easily move gender has nothing to do with this..

- Response by circle09, A Creative, Female, 29-35

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I think it depends entirely on the situation. And I think it is unfair to say that it is just men that do that. I know many women that have done the same thing.

- Response by istoodup, A Thinker, Female, 26-28, Calgary

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